"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Attraction is NOT a choice

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What I think is funny is that alot of you are saying things like "that can't be true! There are girls that love me, and some girls that don't go for me at all. How do you explain them!?"

You can't honestly expect to attract every girl ever. I can think of a lot of slvts that some of you guys would find really attractive and I would find nasty as hell.

Now I know this is going to be amazing for you to hear, but believe it or not, girls each have different opinions of what the think is hot in a guy. *GASP* I know. I know. Amazing isn't it. Just because a girl has big boobs doesn't automatically mean every guy in the country will like her. Same with guys. Just because you have "alphaness" doesn't mean that every girl is going to be attracted to you.
 
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Attraction may not be a choice but acting on it is, if your eyes like what they see they want to fvck it, if they don't, then they won't.
 
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Posts like this show why sosuave has become a laughingstock. Can anyone say: "reinventing the wheel?"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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