Attraction/IOIs

[I'm in the Mood]

What is at the true root of attraction?
Somebody you can relate to? Someone who can make you feel good?

How does a man who isn't physically attractive create sexual attraction?
I'd appreciate specifics that your average guy could use successfully.


Secondly, what exactly are IOIs?
I'm asking this because things can be interpreted very differently and a girl could just be over-friendly to you, but not be attracted.

How do you when a girl is giving you a TRUE IOI?
Meaning that theres a possiblility of genuine interest.

 

[intrextrovert]

How he acts, status.

You don't know, you assume it is an IOI unless you know for a fact she's not interested/is a very flirty person.

 

[DJ Axton]

How do you when a girl is giving you a TRUE IOI?
Meaning that theres a possiblility of genuine interest.

Funnily enough, I think I just cracked this question yesterday when I realised how quickly this girl I was talking too decided to take my bus.

What I realised was this. If they're genuine IOIs, you just know. Interextrovert is half right. Don't just assume something is not an IOI. If you have to ask yourself for a second, "was that an IOI?" then it was NOT an IOI.

She gives you a genuine IOI, you know it straight away.

Now count the amount of times I said IOI in that phrase.

As for you first question. That's a little vague. Wait, a LITTLE vague? You're basically asking for a specific sum up everything discussed on this site lol. All I can say is read the bible, if I have the authority to say that.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Now I see what the origin of an IOI is. People who overanalyze use IOIs. Real men don't need IOIs.

As for the second question, I should make it clearer:
What is attraction, what are the elements of attraction?

Different things work on different girls, but all successful guys have something in common; they're men. I think attraction just enhances your natural game, but sometimes it could play a major part depending on the girl.


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About the IOIs, funny thing is I swear I had this girl I like, and I didn't really think about IOIs..maybe she really wanted to be friends with me or something. She said that she wanted us to get to know each other, and I replied with a dumb line "yeah we could become bestfriends... or worst enemies!"