Attraction = insecurity

[sylvester the cat]

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[sylvester the cat]

beware the false prophet (sophist) for they come as a wolf in Sheeps clothing.

 

[om1xr]

attraction = insecurity?

I don't think so. Being insecure in oneself leads the person to being needy and he will cling to the situation or relationship or the person he is attracted to and by doing and being that he is going to try to control everything and he forgets the only thing that's under his control is the ability to master oneself.

So your argument is kind of vague because if I let go of trying to control others and specifically girls that I'm attracted to I won't be thinking about future or about the next date . I will just go with whatever is happening at that moment with that girl. She can leave if she wants. I won't cling to any thing that can be gone at any moment.

Emotions will be felt and go through me and then be gone and everything else.

so Insecurity is a delusional label then.

ego gives too many fvcks and human psych had instructed too many labels that is pure illusion. you will realize too many things when you stop being drifted by thoughts and emotions whenever they occur.

Not giving a fvck is the epitome of game and every area of life.

 

[Yorkex]

Good theory. About 5 months ago when I broke up with my ex. She blew up my phone almost everyday for a month. I decided to try and give her a chance again so I started talking back to her and hanging out( After 2 weeks she started moving fishy , she told me she found a new guy that likes her and she wants to try it out )

I was shocked ! I messaged her once and she took 5 hours to reply back & so I tried again the following day and she ignored it for a day.
I put her into NC and started spinning other plates , she started blowing up my phone again , I took her to a hotel over the weekend and banged her ( while she has a new boyfriend)

She thought I was going to keep messaging her & try to win her over , I put her back into NC even after that weekend sex trip. Now she hits up my phone once in a while and I keep ignoring.

One thing I learned here : Treat low quality women how they want to be treated.