"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Attraction= Good times + Her mising you?

teddy

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How does that formula sound?

I know some people say that if you go weeks or even months without contacting a woman, she will lose interest. However, I'm finding lately, at parties for instance, if I have a good time with a woman and a few weeks go by without a peep from either one of us, the next time I see her, she will be all over me, or at least exhibit escalating interest.

It's almost like you're crack cocaine to them. They feel a high and have good feelings/emotions around you, they have a withdrawal, and then the next time they see you they want more.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SgtSplacker

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Dude I can't say this works enough times on this forum. It's a delicate ballet you dance with this technique my friend. Wait too long and she forgets you, wait too soon and the irons are not hot enough to hit. Make a lacking first impression and she's too cool to heat up.

But you get it just right and it's the closest thing to Spanish fly you can get.
 
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