"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah, the second glance your way is the buying signal. If you want to get technical, sometimes a girl will look at the ground immediately if she is shy, but then sneak more looks at you.... the girl is SUPPOSED to be the one looking away first, they are submissive, and it usually works out that way, so we have the right idea for eye contact. If she looks away to the side (not down) immediately but avoids your eyes after that, it is a bad sign. I have also heard of something else but never really tried to use it: do you know how really hot girls will look your way and then look away as if almost in disgust? Well, as a man, if you do this to a hot girl like you don't want her at all, it supposedly will get their attention really well. I personally think it wouldn't work too well with girls who you don't know because you didn't get their attention first, and secondly, you might look like you're not dominant or you're not a man. It's worth a try though...

We need to start a whole post about eye contact, it would be interesting. I have also toyed with the "triangling" technique where you look at one eye, then another, and then her mouth, and just keep going around over and over. I usually don't do it but when I have I always lick my lips seductively every now and then and it can have a hypnotizing effect on women. A girl will sometimes do this to a man she likes, so be aware of it.... especially if you catch her looking at your lips when you're talking to her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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