"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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attraction ≠ interest

PapiChulo

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Attraction is basically a sexual feeling you get when you want to put your pee-pee in the vajayjay, and the other way around for a woman. YET, it doesnt mean interest. (not sexual interest).


I think we should differentiate between the two. I ve run into situations where I would be interested sexually in a woman and thats where 90% of the attraction came from, and other times interested in her more as a person despite her average looks, thus still willing to stick it in her. Also given, that she has at least something sexy about her. Please discuss.

I think it should be like this: attraction + interest= date
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A wise man once said:

"Love is the illusion that one cvnt is different than another".
 

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Yeah, guys I am going towards that original formula
where you take the mean of Looks + Personality.

If you are a really a good-looking person, I bet you will have a dozen of people interested in you just purely because of the looks. Then yes, attraction is interest.

But what if you are average or cute at best?

I think we should differentiate between the two, because one is physical for the most part, and the other is the emotional, thus "the illusion of the cvnt being different". But people still seem to use these terms interchangeably, because the end result of lacking in either of them is same - no pus*y.
 
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