"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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attraction ≠ interest

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Attraction is basically a sexual feeling you get when you want to put your pee-pee in the vajayjay, and the other way around for a woman. YET, it doesnt mean interest. (not sexual interest).


I think we should differentiate between the two. I ve run into situations where I would be interested sexually in a woman and thats where 90% of the attraction came from, and other times interested in her more as a person despite her average looks, thus still willing to stick it in her. Also given, that she has at least something sexy about her. Please discuss.

I think it should be like this: attraction + interest= date
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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A wise man once said:

"Love is the illusion that one cvnt is different than another".
 

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Yeah, guys I am going towards that original formula
where you take the mean of Looks + Personality.

If you are a really a good-looking person, I bet you will have a dozen of people interested in you just purely because of the looks. Then yes, attraction is interest.

But what if you are average or cute at best?

I think we should differentiate between the two, because one is physical for the most part, and the other is the emotional, thus "the illusion of the cvnt being different". But people still seem to use these terms interchangeably, because the end result of lacking in either of them is same - no pus*y.
 
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