"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Attracting women without meaning to

MM92

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I've had some strange experiences recently when out with my friends. A couple of nights back me and a friend were out sat having a few beers when a solid 8/10 (probably slightly out of my league) just come over, grabbed me by my arm and pulled me over to go dance with her. I was in total shock as it came out out nowhere. I wasn't overly drunk and I have a girlfriend so I make my excuses after a minute and leave. I see her about an hour later and she gave me an evil look for blowing her off haha.

The Saturday before that I was out with a few friends when my friend approached a milf who had aged very well and wouldn't look out of place as a porn star. He got totally shot down in flames and she was quite rude to him. I waited a while and went over to talk to her, neg hitting her to bring her down a peg or two. She actually seems to take a shine to me and starts telling me that she's 30, (a blatant lie) has her own house, business and nice car. Basically trying to sell herself to me. I'm 19 ffs. Then out of nowhere she starts to grind on me and i'm like wtf?! I went along for a bit to gain man points from all my mates that were stood there in disbelief before saying I need to get back to my mates. She stared at me all night before we left.

I'm basically attracting these without even aiming to. I'm only an average looking lad as far as i'm concerned. I've always done rather well with the ladies apart from the occasional blip but i'm attracting solid 8's without even trying! Amazing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MM92

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Also, one of the things i'm trying to get at without putting enough emphasis on it is DO NOT me afraid to approach hotties. They get sick and take massive dumps just like you. If you approach someone in confidence and act like you're on the same level as them, or even maybe above then most women will buy it. If you're a 6.5/7 like me and a successful friend who regularly does well then don't be afraid to aim for 8's. You'll be surprised how successful you may be. Just remember they're only human, just as you are.
 

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Maybe that girl just has a crush on you. Sometimes showing you are not interested even makes them hotter and she wants you more. Be careful that she is not trying to anything illegal. Men, you got it - but just the wrong girl.
 

BigSmooth

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You're on a good streak.

The worst thing you can do is start overanalyzing everything and overthinking about what you are doing now that you've had these things happen.

My recommendation to you would be to just keep on doing what you're doing.
 
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