"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Attracting women via a MySpace profile

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I am trying to figure out how you get loads of attractive women to view your myspace profile. I have a friend who gets daily friend requests from women and 100% of them are attractive. Not only that, those in New Orleans want to have sex with him. Me, on the other hand, seem to only get average women and strippers with no interest in me.:eek:

Even though I am at my friend's top friend list, I still get the same results. But how can I make a profile so attractive that women will come flocking over to view me (and possibly to f**k)? Definitely need help on this one...LIKE CRAZY!!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Put a picture on with some guy with muscles with his shirt-off and say it's you.

The women messaging your friend are probably hookers or fakes, alsorts. Don't believe most of what you see on Myspace when it comes to women.

The Muscly Jerk
 

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Yep ^
Myspace is all about the look. I did an experiment a few months back where I made 2 different profiles with the same words on each one but one had a pic of a average to ug lookin dude the other had a guy who was strong muscular and cut. I got over 70 replies from women who either gave me their phone number email or said how we should meet up with the cut dude and only 2 from the other guy
 

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Basicly, it's about the pictures. If you look good, you will get ppl wanting to add you, if you don't, you won't. Add alot of hot females and that helps. But, no fakes. But, they're are TONS of those. I get those like everyday.
 

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Just wandering what you guys thought of my profile?

http://www.myspace.com/30522635

I'm not too sure about the topless pic myself, but it's the one I look best in, also it seemed to get more Friends Reqs in the summer, probs cause it was more acceptable back then, I don't know.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Average and nirdish. Pics 1, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8 have to go. You and your friends look boring, like a bunch of AFCs, lol.

3rd pic you look goofy.

1 and 5 you look feminine.

6 looks like you trying to look fun.

4 says youre a nurd.



Words in your profile say you are a nurd, "Was born in...." You KNOW who speaks like that. Nah... No girl will bang you, unless shes fat or a FUG with a low self esteem.

I havent read your blog, but subjects tell me its boring sh1t. I suggest you delete the link you posted on these forums, then delete your pofile, wait until you ready for one.



It takes pictures, story, and life style to be popular on myspace. Your profile should be bragging, but not openly, about you. Its not where you live, its what you made once, and dont visit much, because you have real life.

Women create profiles to brag about themselves, guys create profiles to look for women. If youre average, you wont meet anyone. Even if youre hot, its hard. Sure theyll talk to you, but meeting. Its best if she knows you or at least have seen you somewhere, like at the club, college, whatever. If you appeared fun, and you contact her, she might meet you.
 

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Is it really THAT bad? I've met up with a couple of chicks I met on there, one was an 8/10 with amazing personality n lasted 6 months, another lasted a month, was 9/10 but really dull girl.
 

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It appeared bad to me. Perhaps there are different standards in Miami.
 

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banGbro said:
Average and nirdish. Pics 1, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8 have to go. You and your friends look boring, like a bunch of AFCs, lol.

3rd pic you look goofy.

1 and 5 you look feminine.

6 looks like you trying to look fun.

4 says youre a nurd.



Words in your profile say you are a nurd, "Was born in...." You KNOW who speaks like that. Nah... No girl will bang you, unless shes fat or a FUG with a low self esteem.

I havent read your blog, but subjects tell me its boring sh1t. I suggest you delete the link you posted on these forums, then delete your pofile, wait until you ready for one.



It takes pictures, story, and life style to be popular on myspace. Your profile should be bragging, but not openly, about you. Its not where you live, its what you made once, and dont visit much, because you have real life.

Women create profiles to brag about themselves, guys create profiles to look for women. If youre average, you wont meet anyone. Even if youre hot, its hard. Sure theyll talk to you, but meeting. Its best if she knows you or at least have seen you somewhere, like at the club, college, whatever. If you appeared fun, and you contact her, she might meet you.
harsh, but true. but i would say u most definetly need some better pics. maybe some full body shots and a couple of really good face shots.
the pics of u and ur friends look dull, but chicks dont care about that as much as u think. u dont have to have pics of u doing fun things to look like a real fun guy.

it also helps if u dont tell so much about urself in ur about me section. women will feel they know wat ur about and wont need to find out when they talk to u. it helps with being mysterious, but not too mysterious. because on the internet u have ti reveal some or they will think ur a total stranger, increasing flakiness as a result.

in that section, a simple "hi im so-and-so, i do this, this and that, and i go here" will do. no need for ur whole life story, or the story of how u partied hard last night.
good luck bro
 

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**** myspace pickups.. it's a ****ing joke. I don't understand why you are so jealous of your friend. Myspace girls are the worst.. they're always attention *****s.. sluts.. don't look good IRL or seriously have some ****ing mental issues. Avoid them. Display your profile however you damn well ****ing want, that is what being a man is about. You can change your profile to show off the best person you can be, but don't change yourself. And I would save the myspace **** for contacting people you already know.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NFC said:
**** myspace pickups.. it's a ****ing joke. I don't understand why you are so jealous of your friend. Myspace girls are the worst.. they're always attention *****s.. sluts.. don't look good IRL or seriously have some ****ing mental issues. Avoid them. Display your profile however you damn well ****ing want, that is what being a man is about. You can change your profile to show off the best person you can be, but don't change yourself. And I would save the myspace **** for contacting people you already know.

Let me tell you

This is my experience on MSN

Though I am a married man...

When started on revenge because I felt cheated on by my wife, I used MSN a lot. Almost 2 years of experience

When you talk on MSN:

1-Dont talk about sex
Many guys on MSN talks about sex, they are sick about them
You will be a rare treasure

2-Dont stay to long
Believe me, she will be there next time
Most guys loose their time for hours

3-Dont chase on her, let she chase you
Its funny how they start to chase on you

Mustache
 

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Raikojo17 said:
the pics of u and ur friends look dull, but chicks dont care about that as much as u think. u dont have to have pics of u doing fun things to look like a real fun guy.
It'd be a bit sad if I just had pics of me standin infront of my camera. The pics of me n me mates are the only ones I have of me out doing stuff :(
 

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You're a married man, so most likely you have never met up with any of this chicks? Am I right? So you talked to some girls over the internet.. whoop-de-doo. Try meeting up with them, things will be completely different. You're going to want to run the other way as soon as you meet them, either that or they will have you in a AFC chokehold and next thing you know you're on your knees crying.

Avoid myspace girls.
 

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Those pics are average because you have average life. A lot of average people on myspace.

Here is bobby rios http://www.myspace.com/daviddeangelo


We all wish we had something like that, need life to back it up with. Easiest thing to do is get a fvcking life, then make a profile that reflects what you do. For example me, Im an automotive electronics tech and programmer, I make tuning software. So my profile is strickly professional. If youre a racer, your profile should be about racing. Bobby is into pu55y, hes profile is about getting pu55y. Read bobbys stuff, you can learn a lot from that.

The idea is not to focus on myspace. Myspace is garbage for low lifes, such as attention *****s, and frustrated dudes. Focus on your real life, thats the real deal, thats what earns you respect and allows personal growth. When you ready youll know exactly what to write, and your naturally good looking pictures will good look to women.


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Now I disagree with NFC. A lot of high school girls there, and if youre into young pu55y, myspace is a good place, but not the best.
 

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NFC said:
You're a married man, so most likely you have never met up with any of this chicks? Am I right?

Avoid myspace girls.
Unfortunately I met them. About 15 women

When I talked about sex I met ugly women, but when I quit talking about
sex I started to find better girls

Mustache
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NickSCFC2000 said:
Man British life is well different to American life!
Crikey mate, are you calling America rubbish? you tallywacker! bro
 

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Nah, just the only partyin we do is goin to clubs, the drinking culture is alot bigger here I guess, everyone's a mess and depressed the rest of the time.

Man wish I lived in America, ****in beach parties every weekend!
 

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I find England depressing.. small engines, cameras everywhere. South Africa and Australia is alright. Russia is alright, unless you have to work to make a living. Finest chicks come from Sweeden, Norway, and Columbia.
 

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NickSCFC2000 said:
It'd be a bit sad if I just had pics of me standin infront of my camera. The pics of me n me mates are the only ones I have of me out doing stuff :(
they look dull as in they arent good quality and look dark and u guys arent really smiling, looking like u are having fun.

but dont get too hung up on the fun picks. jus nice pics of you would do. girls can see how fun you are when they talk to u.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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