"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Attracting women in your social circle

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Heritic_101

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I use women at work to improve my flirting skill. The result so far has been very positve. Now, so far I have rejected 3 women, one of them I even had to guide out of my room, when we stayed at a hotel (work related). Main reason I didn't sleep with these women, they were not attractive enough for me.

I'm still on good terms with these women. No problems or drama so far. What I am wondering about, will rejecting these women hurt or improve my value among the other women where I work?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Danger! Keep your relationships with women at work as non-sexual as possible. Minimize the flirting. It wouldn't be a stretch for a rejected co-worker to get her revenge by claiming you sexually harassed her.
 
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Work is NOT a social circle for dating! It only works out if you MARRY her. Otherwise,someone breaks it off and there are hurt feelings-maybe leading to sexual harassment charges etc.

With so many lakes to fish in,why are you fishing in the sewage pond?
 
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You're asking for trouble if your making your workplace your training ground. If don't right, you'll be fine, but women are not rational. All it takes is one stalker to ruin your career. Drama at work is no fun.
 
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