"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Attracting woman with guitar.

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MrI0wn

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1) Always wear a hoodie/hat to hide your receding hairline, 2) always look down/away from people when playing guitar, and 3) give the impression you don't want to be bothered when you're playing music in public.

That's not interesting or even mysterious, that's being a hobo.
 

Love's Orphan

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First you gotta be attractive in her eyes... Dont eat the "whats inside is important" dish (yes, of course, you gotta have all the vital organs to live). The guitar is just a bonus.
 

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I Own a guitar and use it!!!

it's actually like a weapon of mass destruction. I of course don't rely on it, I use it way after I attract them, I let them figure out by themselves that i actually play, and sing quite good actually.

and when they figure it out, I sing to them, and they just melt and attraction increases exponentially!!!

yes I've used this even to attract chicks in the past with SUCCESS.. I've probably got a make out or increased attraction by playing guitar AND singing! to numerous girls (probably more than 10)

I think it's the singing that does it for me, along with the playing, and the charisma behind it, its like a complete package at that moment, and you are taking her into your reality. its just very attractive, since you run the show at that moment.

yup. I will continue to use it in the future!!
but again for me its both guitar plus singing, plus having an atttractive personality.... it increases attraction significantly high!!!

i think if I just play would not cause as much results
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Play her a song you've wrote about starting a band and you need a girl who play's the rusty trombone and is an expert at the skin flute.
 

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I used to play in bands when I was younger. Used to get a lot of girls from it just because a lot of people would hang around us, they liked being around it. But this was back in the days when being in a band was a bigger deal. Rock was at the height of its popularity and creativity, it's faded a lot since then.

I've known guys who overdo it. They start playing their guitar and singing and then they go too long and won't shut up and end up getting on people's nerves. I've seen women scream at guys to quit playing.
 

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Thats where game comes in.. for me one or two songs does the trick and stop
 
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