Attracting the wrong girls! ...

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

HariPoter13

Senior Don Juan

Apr 24, 2010

The thing is, women are exactly like men.

Have you ever seen a beautiful lady and thought to yourself "She's too good for me. I can't have her."? I know that each and every one of us is guilty of this one.

You see, women are also like that. A woman sees a pretty man and thinks to herself how pretty he is. His looks intimidate her because she thinks her looks aren't on par with his. She puts him on a pedestal!

Bottom line is, looks aren't and shouldn't be a measure in life. Once you rid yourself of this limiting belief you will find peace of mind.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.