Attracting the wrong girls! ...

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

HariPoter13

Senior Don Juan

Apr 24, 2010

The thing is, women are exactly like men.

Have you ever seen a beautiful lady and thought to yourself "She's too good for me. I can't have her."? I know that each and every one of us is guilty of this one.

You see, women are also like that. A woman sees a pretty man and thinks to herself how pretty he is. His looks intimidate her because she thinks her looks aren't on par with his. She puts him on a pedestal!

Bottom line is, looks aren't and shouldn't be a measure in life. Once you rid yourself of this limiting belief you will find peace of mind.

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.