"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Attracting Specific Ethnicities

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Looking back at the past 6 months or so, I have noticed that I have been more successful with certain ethnicities. For example, my record is almost flawless in getting dates with, and laying, Mexican chicks. Now, as my name suggests, I am not Mexican so that is not the reason. Also, I have done ok with middle-eastern and Indian chicks. And actually, I have a pretty bad record with American girls.

Now, I think we all agree that there are certain characteristics that all women look for, confidence, strength (mental, emotional, and even sometimes physical) and things of that sort. But I cant help but wonder if there are other things, maybe more subtle, that work on the margin so-to-speak. I mean, girls who are brought up with different values, appreciate different qualities. Their ideal "Man" may be more like their father, or other important, men in their lives, and the influental men in their societies. So is it possible that, even subconciously, girls pick up on certain qualities that Men from teir culture share? Some examples may be, talking with your hands (Italians), nodding your head a certain way (Indians), or lack there of (Eastern-Europeans), and things like this that you just do naturally.

I dont think I behave much differently from one girl to the next, in general, but maybe I do and dont notice it. I can say that there is no BIG difference in the way I approach different women. But at the end of the day, the data shows a certain pattern, and there must be a reason for it. Thoughts on this matter...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrrippey

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You have to know the type of women you attract. If that means you stay at one end of the pool than the others, that is not a bad thing. You like all women, all types I am sure. If you are lucky enough to get something out of your zone, great.

I stay with carribean and black women because that is what I gravitate to and vice versa. I however got a really nice Italian chick two years ago (she liked guys like me) and it was great. Do I try every hot Italian chick, no. They tend not to like my style, all good though, their loss.

Be happy and eat.
 
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