"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Attracting Specific Ethnicities

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Looking back at the past 6 months or so, I have noticed that I have been more successful with certain ethnicities. For example, my record is almost flawless in getting dates with, and laying, Mexican chicks. Now, as my name suggests, I am not Mexican so that is not the reason. Also, I have done ok with middle-eastern and Indian chicks. And actually, I have a pretty bad record with American girls.

Now, I think we all agree that there are certain characteristics that all women look for, confidence, strength (mental, emotional, and even sometimes physical) and things of that sort. But I cant help but wonder if there are other things, maybe more subtle, that work on the margin so-to-speak. I mean, girls who are brought up with different values, appreciate different qualities. Their ideal "Man" may be more like their father, or other important, men in their lives, and the influental men in their societies. So is it possible that, even subconciously, girls pick up on certain qualities that Men from teir culture share? Some examples may be, talking with your hands (Italians), nodding your head a certain way (Indians), or lack there of (Eastern-Europeans), and things like this that you just do naturally.

I dont think I behave much differently from one girl to the next, in general, but maybe I do and dont notice it. I can say that there is no BIG difference in the way I approach different women. But at the end of the day, the data shows a certain pattern, and there must be a reason for it. Thoughts on this matter...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mrrippey

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You have to know the type of women you attract. If that means you stay at one end of the pool than the others, that is not a bad thing. You like all women, all types I am sure. If you are lucky enough to get something out of your zone, great.

I stay with carribean and black women because that is what I gravitate to and vice versa. I however got a really nice Italian chick two years ago (she liked guys like me) and it was great. Do I try every hot Italian chick, no. They tend not to like my style, all good though, their loss.

Be happy and eat.
 
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