Masked_angel
Don Juan
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Dear Master Don Juans.. remember this.. Your 10s are my 6s in my scale 
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attracting Models, Beautiful & Intelligent Women, 10s, etc.
- Thread starter Bluewater7
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
many "high-end" lines have a plus-size component. michael kors, ralph lauren, anne klein, etc. i don't necessarily want to see plus-size people in a victoria's secret runway fashion shows, but i think it's good to have models in a range of sizes display the clothes IF your line carries a range of sizes.
there is zero reason why there needs to be a separation between plus-size fashion and high-end fashion. that being said, obviously not every look will work on a plus-sized body, but that's the point of having a plus-sized model show you what the clothes look like on her body.
for the record, though - most plus-size models look nothing like the average "plus-size" consumer in terms of body composition. have you ever seen the "controversial" lane bryant commercial with the attractive brunette in her underwear? she had a flat stomach! she's probably a size 10-12, and isn't a total slob. she's just a larger woman. the way she looks in clothes isn't necessarily representative of the way other plus-size bodies will look in the same items, but i suppose that's true of regular size women and their corresponding models as well.
there is zero reason why there needs to be a separation between plus-size fashion and high-end fashion. that being said, obviously not every look will work on a plus-sized body, but that's the point of having a plus-sized model show you what the clothes look like on her body.
for the record, though - most plus-size models look nothing like the average "plus-size" consumer in terms of body composition. have you ever seen the "controversial" lane bryant commercial with the attractive brunette in her underwear? she had a flat stomach! she's probably a size 10-12, and isn't a total slob. she's just a larger woman. the way she looks in clothes isn't necessarily representative of the way other plus-size bodies will look in the same items, but i suppose that's true of regular size women and their corresponding models as well.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.