"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Attracting an ex HB10 that is near the wall?

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What is the best approach?

A little background, she is in her early 30s, used to be a HB10 with extremely high career prospect but due to many reason she had fallen on the career front. Frankly becoming a little BPD.

She is still very hot for her age, but showing signs of hitting the wall, and she knows it, she mention to me before she has this list and one of them is someone who is older and divorced. She also talks about how she is doing all these self improvement programmes. And recently she also unloaded quite a lot of old photo of herself on FB.

Now I was FZ before, and for better or worst, although we sort of in contact. we are not as friendly now, now I really just want to bang her. and I believe if I can get her, I can attract the type of girls I like.

What would be the first step? My guess is go on a deeper NC and improve my game?

This lead me to a border question, what sort of person shall a mature men (early 30s) be?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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