"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Attracted To A Married Woman

5string

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To each his own. I however would not cheat with a married gal no matter what my status. Nothing good can come of it. You can get hurt in many ways. So, no worries. I for one will not be sniffing around your wives and girlfriends. I would be disrespecting you if I did.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I guess it really comes down to if she leaves or divorces her husband first then she is free to sex anyone she so chooses then she will have integrity of good character and not be judged as a woman to avoid.

It's only when she remains with her husband and then cheats that she is a woman to avoid at all cost for she can't be trusted for she is having her cake and eating it to only at the expense of deceit. I am still a firm believer just because a womans cheats it doesn't mean she will do the same to you someday but sure many do.

Knowing that I know this I still have a hard time forgetting this lady and that above anything else is whats most disturbing to me and what is really going on with me.

I really appreciate everyones replies maybe this lady will divorce and this house fire will be the cause of it due to the stress of loosing everything not that I am wishing this on her or her husband for if a marriage is strong it will survive regardless and won't be because of me if they were to divorce.

The ball is in her court as I have planted the seed in being empathic and all I can do is stand back give her space and see if it sprouts into what I desire of this lady a commited and loving relationship.
 
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