There's this HB8 I've been gaming for about 3 weeks now. I've number closed already. We go to the same college so we see each other around quite often. I think I had the chance to K-Close about a week ago (she lingered around when it was time to go our separate ways) but passed as my breath smelled. I haven't had another chance since then. I've also asked her out twice now but she has been busy both times. She used to be really into me a few years back when we were young (around 13-14) but I never made anything of it as I wasn't interested.
When she sees me alone in the cafeteria, library etc she will come and sit with me and make conversation if she's alone, she smiles at me if she sees me around, she makes eye contact with me in class, bought me a drink when I asked etc. Also my grandma happens to live a few blocks away from her so when I go to visit her on a Monday she always asks me to walk with her, however, I also visit my grandma on a Wednesday and walk the same way but on Wednesday she just completely ignores me and walks on her own. I've put my arm around her shoulders and waist etc and she doesn't move away so she's receptive to my kino. She's also touched me lightly on my arm a couple of times. She also gives me this look where she stares at me and smirks/smiles when I'm not looking and when I look she turns away still smiling, sighs a lot when I tease her and looks annoyed but then just randomly giggles when its quiet. We have good conversations and when it goes quiet she will always re-initiate.
However, she seems really comfortable around me which I thought was unusual. Also, when we were on the sitting together on the bus I moved my leg closer to hers so they were touching slightly and she moved hers away straight away, I tried again later on but she did the same again. Plus, she initiated texts with me for the first week or so but hasn't initiated a text conversation with me since. Now we'll only text if I text her first. She's also starting liking a lot of pictures of this boy on Instagram and favourites all of his tweets, does this mean anything?
Do you think she's attracted to me or do you think I've landed firmly in the friend zone? Should I give up now?
When she sees me alone in the cafeteria, library etc she will come and sit with me and make conversation if she's alone, she smiles at me if she sees me around, she makes eye contact with me in class, bought me a drink when I asked etc. Also my grandma happens to live a few blocks away from her so when I go to visit her on a Monday she always asks me to walk with her, however, I also visit my grandma on a Wednesday and walk the same way but on Wednesday she just completely ignores me and walks on her own. I've put my arm around her shoulders and waist etc and she doesn't move away so she's receptive to my kino. She's also touched me lightly on my arm a couple of times. She also gives me this look where she stares at me and smirks/smiles when I'm not looking and when I look she turns away still smiling, sighs a lot when I tease her and looks annoyed but then just randomly giggles when its quiet. We have good conversations and when it goes quiet she will always re-initiate.
However, she seems really comfortable around me which I thought was unusual. Also, when we were on the sitting together on the bus I moved my leg closer to hers so they were touching slightly and she moved hers away straight away, I tried again later on but she did the same again. Plus, she initiated texts with me for the first week or so but hasn't initiated a text conversation with me since. Now we'll only text if I text her first. She's also starting liking a lot of pictures of this boy on Instagram and favourites all of his tweets, does this mean anything?
Do you think she's attracted to me or do you think I've landed firmly in the friend zone? Should I give up now?
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