"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Attract women don't chase them?

Viper423

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I was reading through an article by Pook in the DJ bible and it said that we should attract women and not chase them because they need us and we don't need them. So should I just let a woman ask me out? I mean, with this mind set a guy would never get a girlfriend. Shouldn't we go after women and ask them out? I mean, how can we sit back and wait for them? What if they never come?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Titus

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Yes. When totem big enough, putke come by themselves.

But what when totem not big enough? That be big, or rather, small problem,
 
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