"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ATTN: SAN FRANCISCO/BAY AREA PUA/DJs!!!!

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Lets meet up!!!!! lets go to the clubs and pick up some women...we can all learn from each other just like Styles/Mystery/ and Tyler Durden learned from each other. PM me if interested in meeting up this friday!! (8/3/07)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Actually I don't live there.... but am thinking of moving there if a few things pan out. I've only been there one time, do you like living there?
 

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its alright...San Francisco is the only thing we have thats close to exciting...where are you coming from?
 

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Oc/la.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well if I make it up there, I will.Well if I make it up there, I will. :)
 

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San francisco and Bay Area wingman unite!

This is *Star* from www.sfwingman.com. We formed this group as a fun way to gather and connect with fellow wingmen in the San Francisco Bay Area and to do real life/in the field experimentation.
So join us and connect with other fellow members in the San francisco Bay Area Community and I'm sure we have a few tips we can learn from you and you might learn from us.
Sareg On
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This is *Star* from www.sfwingman.com. We formed this group as a fun way to gather and connect with fellow wingmen in the San Francisco Bay Area and to do real life/in the field experimentation.
So join us and connect with other fellow members in the San francisco Bay Area Community and I'm sure we have a few tips we can learn from you and you might learn from us.
Sarge On
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I live in berkeley next to the UC...
I just turned 18, so I cant enter clubs yet... I pretty much sarge High-School parties right now... I want to start day game, but I still need to learn a lil more before I step into that.
All PUAs in training, around the ages of 16-19, feel free to pm me. (Sorry but most of the sets I open are high school girls, so age is an issue for now...)
I am in need of a good wing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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