"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ATTN: SAN FRANCISCO/BAY AREA PUA/DJs!!!!

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Lets meet up!!!!! lets go to the clubs and pick up some women...we can all learn from each other just like Styles/Mystery/ and Tyler Durden learned from each other. PM me if interested in meeting up this friday!! (8/3/07)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Actually I don't live there.... but am thinking of moving there if a few things pan out. I've only been there one time, do you like living there?
 

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its alright...San Francisco is the only thing we have thats close to exciting...where are you coming from?
 

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Oc/la.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well if I make it up there, I will.Well if I make it up there, I will. :)
 

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San francisco and Bay Area wingman unite!

This is *Star* from www.sfwingman.com. We formed this group as a fun way to gather and connect with fellow wingmen in the San Francisco Bay Area and to do real life/in the field experimentation.
So join us and connect with other fellow members in the San francisco Bay Area Community and I'm sure we have a few tips we can learn from you and you might learn from us.
Sareg On
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This is *Star* from www.sfwingman.com. We formed this group as a fun way to gather and connect with fellow wingmen in the San Francisco Bay Area and to do real life/in the field experimentation.
So join us and connect with other fellow members in the San francisco Bay Area Community and I'm sure we have a few tips we can learn from you and you might learn from us.
Sarge On
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I live in berkeley next to the UC...
I just turned 18, so I cant enter clubs yet... I pretty much sarge High-School parties right now... I want to start day game, but I still need to learn a lil more before I step into that.
All PUAs in training, around the ages of 16-19, feel free to pm me. (Sorry but most of the sets I open are high school girls, so age is an issue for now...)
I am in need of a good wing.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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