"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I Do have a problem ....Huge one ...don't wanna post something long just ...would like to have some input about ...

If you were dating a very nice chick you like a lot .for about five months.. and you see traits in her mom and her dad during all this time(nagging and controlling)...that you would NOT like to have in a FUTURE mate if you marry this woman...and your chick is only 21 .... is she going to end up with the same **** traits her parents have? ... is she too young already to display this same traits from her parents? ....am I missing some flags?

PLEASE HELP
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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It takes two to tango, think about it.
 
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Some children tend to mirror their parents. Some go to the opposite extreme. Some actually manage find their own neuroses.

Encouraging, aren't I?

Have you ever thought about chatting with her about the subject? If it's something that concerns you, your best bet is to talk to her about it.
 
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Lets not think about marriage at this stage in the relationship... but instead, think, 'where can I do her in the butt?'

It's really the only thing that should matter right now... besides, nothing says you wear the pants in this relationship then, doin her in the butt.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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1. Either you a man and in control of your environment or your a symp and get controlled. It has nothing to do with her traits or her families traits.

2. What I'm saying is be a man. A real man let's no-one control him.

3. Obviously you haven't learned this or you wouldn't be in fear of her turning out like her momma.
 
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