"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How has your attitude towards women changed since you started on the road from AFC to DJ?

To clarify, I'm not asking what lessons you have learned for being good at the game. Instead, I'm wondering what your new beliefs are about women generally.

I'm curious to know, because it seems that the typical AFC has a much more unrealistic view of women than guys on this forum do.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LOL, both DJs and AFCS can have unrealistic viewpoints of women and the type of women they can pick up.

Attitude will never change, you can't hide it but you can be aware and consciously be a better person.
 

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How did it change hmmm...

I think mostly that the single greatest change i've made in my life is believing in myself. No matter howmany confirmations i've gotten in the past i couldn't never bring myself to believe that maybe i have the right ideas and a good head and gut.

That was basically a major key for me and it changed everything from the ground up. Not just women but my carreer, my look on life, everything...

I used to be intimidated by women. Their confidence seemed so real, i actually believed they were better than me.

Now i've found out that most women, most people in general actually, don't know sh1t, talk a lot of sh1t but can't really make any solid points or know where they are going/where they've been. Don't understand basic concepts and life lessons etc.

Make a long story short, i'm not longer intimidated, quite the oposite.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I treat the interested ones AKA the ones "putting out" great. Dinner, drinks, fun, laughter, and good times shared. But I dont get too close, and I remain just a tad "mysterious"....I might be with a gal for a night, and then not call for a week. Meanwhile, she is doing her thing as well. When she gets tired of little boys, and wants a piece of the Rock, she will call.

I treat Attention Wh0res, about on an equal level, as say a sewer rat, or perhaps a leper. They get ZERO attention, and if they insist on wasting my time chatting, I LOVVVE to talk about other women in front of them, and one fun trick is to buy MYSELF a drink, and not her, and when she asks for something, I say something like "Amaretto Sour?...sure, bartender, seperate tabs"

Sexually Addicted F**k Buddies get treated like Mickey Rourke treats Carrie Otis in that film "Wild Orchid" in the final scene. I dont get close at all, and take the relationship for what it's worth. Guys in Stateline Nevada pay damned near 400 bucks for what she is giving away for free!

Other normal women, I treat with respect, and if they show me love they will get it in return. If I get vinegar, I respond with venom, just as I do with the males.
 

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Originally posted by JackPrescott
I treat the interested ones AKA the ones "putting out" great. Dinner, drinks, fun, laughter, and good times shared. But I dont get too close, and I remain just a tad "mysterious"....I might be with a gal for a night, and then not call for a week. Meanwhile, she is doing her thing as well. When she gets tired of little boys, and wants a piece of the Rock, she will call.

I treat Attention Wh0res, about on an equal level, as say a sewer rat, or perhaps a leper. They get ZERO attention, and if they insist on wasting my time chatting, I LOVVVE to talk about other women in front of them, and one fun trick is to buy MYSELF a drink, and not her, and when she asks for something, I say something like "Amaretto Sour?...sure, bartender, seperate tabs"

Sexually Addicted F**k Buddies get treated like Mickey Rourke treats Carrie Otis in that film "Wild Orchid" in the final scene. I dont get close at all, and take the relationship for what it's worth. Guys in Stateline Nevada pay damned near 400 bucks for what she is giving away for free!

Other normal women, I treat with respect, and if they show me love they will get it in return. If I get vinegar, I respond with venom, just as I do with the males.
Well put...
 

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I dunno, I'm getting an awful lot of accusations of being a bad guy with women issues and accused of being a player.

I'm even getting alot of disdain from certain women, although keep in mind, alot of the women where I'm from are hardcore lefty-feminazis.

I'm getting alot of interference lately also with regards to my relationship (which has recently dissolved).

I got a very high level of interference run by her girlfriends, saying to dump me and that I'm no good, and from another 23 year old bimbo who kept claiming that I kept hitting on her relentlessly, and that I continued to keep hitting on her, after she turned me down apparently. But that was 100% bullsh*t, I never hit on the this 23 y.o. broad in my life and, in fact, have probably spoken to her all of ten times, and usually ignored her completely becuase she was such a dim-bulb.

Always caught her looking at me though.

So, there's good and bad coming my way since my cross over to DJism.

The plus side is a f*ck of a lot more attention from women, and the downside is well, a f*ck of a lot more attention from women.

I suppose you attract good ones and downright evil ones as well.

I'm also getting alot of other dudes challenging me, and talking shyte behind my back, but of course, not to my face.
 

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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
23 year old bimbo who kept claiming that I kept hitting on her relentlessly, and that I continued to keep hitting on her, after she turned me down apparently. But that was 100% bullsh*t, I never hit on the this 23 y.o. broad in my life and, in fact, have probably spoken to her all of ten times, and usually ignored her completely becuase she was such a dim-bulb.

Always caught her looking at me though.

I'm also getting alot of other dudes challenging me, and talking shyte behind my back, but of course, not to my face.
Totally classic... Been faced with the exact same crap actually!

Envy and dimwits are everywhere. Girls start backstabbing and talking sh1t, guys start ****blocking and talking sh1t....

Of course, the ones who will actually challenge you to your face are so few and far between that if they were toilets you'd have a better than orgasm dump everytime you need to go ;-)

Most of them go like 'what? that's bullsh1t, i never said any such thing, wir haben das nicht gewusst, etc :rolleyes: '
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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