"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Attitude towards "the game" and an inspirational video

Dom João

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q5nVqeVhgQE&feature=fvwrel

This is my first thread on here, so I thought I'd start with something I personally believe to be the most important part of becoming a true Don Juan.

Attitude... i've come to realise that you can be the most talented guy in the world, or conversely know every tip and trick in the book of whatever it is you want to be a pro at. But if you don't have the right attitude, you will get nowhere.
I think you have to either love what it is you are trying to improve at (for example a maestro guitarist will love playing the guitar both for the satisfaction and the challenge itself), or be so focused on achieving a dream (like finding the one girl that won't f*ck you over) that nothing will stand in your way.

Anyway, I'm sure most of you will know what I'm talking about. The main reason for this post is to share this video of, in my opinion, one of the coolest guys on the planet - Will Smith, sharing his wisdom. Seeing this video was a real eye opener for me, and turned my whole attitude around.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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