"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Attitude towards "the game" and an inspirational video

Dom João

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q5nVqeVhgQE&feature=fvwrel

This is my first thread on here, so I thought I'd start with something I personally believe to be the most important part of becoming a true Don Juan.

Attitude... i've come to realise that you can be the most talented guy in the world, or conversely know every tip and trick in the book of whatever it is you want to be a pro at. But if you don't have the right attitude, you will get nowhere.
I think you have to either love what it is you are trying to improve at (for example a maestro guitarist will love playing the guitar both for the satisfaction and the challenge itself), or be so focused on achieving a dream (like finding the one girl that won't f*ck you over) that nothing will stand in your way.

Anyway, I'm sure most of you will know what I'm talking about. The main reason for this post is to share this video of, in my opinion, one of the coolest guys on the planet - Will Smith, sharing his wisdom. Seeing this video was a real eye opener for me, and turned my whole attitude around.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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