"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Attitude Determines Altitude

COD

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Ever do one of those personality tests, a lot of companies require candidates to complete EQ (emotional Quotient) before their application is submitted.

Meyer Briggs personality indicator tests are designed to weed out the INTROVERTS and nothing more.

Recently those tests have been under fire from the scientific community; No scientific evidence of skill level or any future potential where dedication, job performance, etc are concerned. WHATS ALL DIS STUFF MEAN--it does not matter how many years experience you have, your acquired skill set, or your references, even if you are the best.

Ya so, how does this relate to getting laid?. Great question----heres my answer. All you gotta do is fake it til you make it. Yep you heard me, exude confidence, be funny, a team player, do what it takes to get your foot in the door, then once your there.......kick major ass.

It's all about how you make her feel that will determine how much effort it will require to see her naked. Once a chic shows the slightest hint of attraction, time to turn it up a notch. But getting there is where most men are having difficulty. Do the monkey dance and she will want your banana. After that you can move on, trade up, keep her on the side, make her chase you, etc.

Fake it til you make it, then you can frame it anyway you want it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you can fake 'it' that well... you've probably got 'it' anyway.
 
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