Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Attitude about the future of your job/business?

What is your attitude/outlook?

  • Recession? What recession? My business/industry is doing great!

    Votes: 1 9.1%
  • My business/industry is doing well, but would be performing better if not for the recession.

    Votes: 4 36.4%
  • I'm seeing stagnant or slight profit/wage growth, but I'm still confidently in business/employed.

    Votes: 1 9.1%
  • My business/job is on shaky ground, and I'm uncertain if i will remain in business/employed.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I'm out of business/unemployed, but I'm optimistic that things are going to turn around soon.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I'm out of business/unemployed, and I don't see things getting better anytime soon.

    Votes: 1 9.1%
  • The end is near. I'm stocking my bunker with canned goods and ammo.

    Votes: 4 36.4%

  • Total voters
    11

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Master Don Juan
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Hey guys, I'm trying to measure the attitudes of the members of the board towards how you all envision your financial future, given the current recession. I know a fair amount of you guys are business owners so I took that into consideration making the poll.

Votes are much appreciated, and feel free to clarify/elaborate in the thread if you wish.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Huffman

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IT, Software etc. has been hit, but still going extremely strong. Very easy to get into interesting projects, and with a bit of luck&effort also good pay. It's not 2000 anymore, but specialists (with a little experience) are still in high demand.

As long as you're in the right city ;)
 

backbreaker

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Actually the recession was the best thing that could have happened to my business (web development), about 1/3rd of my clients were people who had gotten laid off, had some money in the bank and wanted to try an idea they have had put on the backburner becuase of their jobs. People who wanted to be their own boss
 

sharkbeat

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I got laid off and haven't found a job. There are a lot of interviews going, but nothing will go for sure. I tried my best to represent myself, but if companies don't like me, they don't like me. At the same time, I am starting my own business, even that I have just barely started with the remaining cash in my bank account.

Given the adversity I have endured in the past 6 months, there really isn't one item there that fits my condition perfectly. I am not expecting that things will go well, but I am not backing down either and will continue to fight. I am hoping things will get better, but I am prepared for the worst. My current attitude now about my future is to do my best given the current condition and expect nothing out of the future.
 

Julian

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Stacks on deck. Cant even spell resecscion
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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