"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Grabbing the most attention!

Hello,

As this is my first post ever on the forums (I have been reading for a few weeks), here are a few words about myself. I am a 17-year-old boy (young man?) from Northern Europe. I am not scared to talk to girls (I mean, I can quite easily hit on strangers, too, although I still tend to fail. But I do know it takes some practice!). Also, at parties I am able to grab the attention and thus flirt and hit on the girls, using the C&F techniques etc.
Well, is it not that you need to grab some attention to have some chance to flirt and hit on girls? As I already stated, I am usually able to get into the centre of attention, because most of the other guys that are around, are AFCs or Mr. Nice Guys. BUT when there is one certain friend of mine (actually I could say he is my best friend) around, I am fvcked. I mean, he is the funniest guy I know. His dance moves are great (not that I could not dance - I am good, but he is better!), he makes everyone laugh (I can do that, too, but he is better), she flirts a lot and is great at the C&F stuff and kino (again - I can do it all, but he is just better and I am left to the background!!), and so on, and so on.
So the question is - what should I do? Yeah - I whould improve myself and be better? Learn some better dance moves, make better jokes etc? But really - what can I do when he is around to grab some more attention than he gets!? It is like the party is ruined for me, if he is around, lol. Actually it is extremely fun with him, but hey, he gets the attention (which means the girls are his, too!).

Any suggestions, lol? Sorry if it was too hard to understand as English is my third language. But looking forward for some nice advice that I am sure to get.

Thanks!
ASD :)
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I used to hav this problem. Dont try too hard in an effort to compete with him. others will see this and see u prob as desperate for attention, which, u know, repels attention.

He may be funnier than u, a better dancer, etc... but u must be the same around as u are not around him. It'll be better if u can show how u and him are different, in a social setting. He cant be better than u at everything.
 
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Work off each other, wingman style. Go out sarging together. If you're funny and your friend is funnier, then I'm sure that the two of you will have the girls flocking ot you.
 
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