"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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B-Real

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Ok, I posted a topic on flakey women recently and it discussed how this certain girl is toying with me. Well, she won't quit calling my phone.

I broke it off her a with a few days ago and told her that we should just be friends. I did this because she had mentioned to one of my buddies that I was "clingy". So, now she keeps calling me. And I know she is trying to get me to take her back.

She said I was clingy so it obviously means that I was highly attracted to her. Which I was, and still am.

But.. should I go along with what I'm doing now and refuse to call her, but answer her phone calls, or should I just not even answer when she calls.

I want to show her that she didn't know who she was messing with whenever she said that stuff about me and that she is missing out on a great lay. Which is why I wonder if I should answer her calls, call her every so often, or just refrain from talking to her all together
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KontrollerX

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If she is an HPD the only way you will get a piece of that azz is to act emotionally cold to her with a vague interest.

You must always remain a challenge to a chick such as this and never, never, never, EVER let your guard down and try to become intimate with her on a deep level no matter if the relationship has only been going on for a few months or a few years.

Once a guy goes that route, shows he really cares, she feels he is conquered and loses all interest.

Also know that by calling you clingy to your friend and maybe to you personally she is using the personality disordered method of manipulation known as projective identification also known as projection where they project onto you what they are really feeling about themselves inside.

If she continues to fvck with you and not come around even with these tips and you next her she will likely come crawling back and start messing with you sometime later.

If its important for you to get back at her know that insulting an HPD's looks is very devastating to them.

Do it in a casual manner.

Like say if she calls you up and expresses interest but you are done with her say something smooth like "Sorry I'm past my dating the average looking girls charity phase" then hang up on her.

It will really hurt her to say that or something else like it as HPD's pretty much focus on and care about their looks more than anything else lol.

These chicks are not at all like normal girls so if she fits the AW a.k.a HPD profile my technique for getting back at her is the only thing that will work and get through to her.
 

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If you know she is trying to get you to take her back, then you already have her answer. Let her take her sweet old time worrying about what you're doing, while you're going to have some fun. Then, if she really wants you back, then she'll let you know, trust me. Last time this happend to me with a girl I practically fell head over heels for, she came back to me throwing me onto my bed :)
 

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So pretty much what you guys are saying is that being an @$$ to her will have the opposite effect. Instead of making her go away mad, it will draw her towards me?

I've kinda used this before, but it was with a girl that I hardly knew, so this may take some work.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Fortunately i had my adventures with alot of these girls,and that's because my trancend from an afc to an dj wasn't that smooth,i was a royal ******* (i was furious because of my afc oneitis and stuff) and this attracted these slvts like flies to ****.I was too blind to do a move though,i just figured out recently that i could screw them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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