_sideways_
Master Don Juan
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Do you know any?
What qualifies one?
What qualifies one?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Attention whpre guys?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Von
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Anyone who seeks to be succesful, famous, in the spotlight, make a lot of MONEY and flash it around.
Anyone who seeks to be the center of attention.
Anyone who ACT in ORDER TO CONTROL THE ATTENTION.
Famous Actor: Kevin Hart.... perfect example.. at the oscar ceremony of 2016-2017... when his wife/girlfriend was being interviewed, he literally pushed her out of the camera frame and interviewer line of sight... so HE ALONE was the attention... there was another camera taking the image from a another angle... his girlfriend reaction was this: SMILED, LOOKED HAPPY, TURNED 100% towards Kevin Hart, became a silent smiling woman... 100% dedicated to Kevin Hart need of attentions... Once Kevin Hart was done... he took her and they left..
So the example shows: A guy who's a attention ***** (and succesful).. and a girl 100% submitted to her man project/Success. Btw, it's the same girl... he cheats on
Anyone who seeks to be succesful, famous, in the spotlight, make a lot of MONEY and flash it around.
Anyone who seeks to be the center of attention.
Anyone who ACT in ORDER TO CONTROL THE ATTENTION.
Famous Actor: Kevin Hart.... perfect example.. at the oscar ceremony of 2016-2017... when his wife/girlfriend was being interviewed, he literally pushed her out of the camera frame and interviewer line of sight... so HE ALONE was the attention... there was another camera taking the image from a another angle... his girlfriend reaction was this: SMILED, LOOKED HAPPY, TURNED 100% towards Kevin Hart, became a silent smiling woman... 100% dedicated to Kevin Hart need of attentions... Once Kevin Hart was done... he took her and they left..
So the example shows: A guy who's a attention ***** (and succesful).. and a girl 100% submitted to her man project/Success. Btw, it's the same girl... he cheats on