Attention whoring on social media a red flag?

[DEEZEDBRAH]

What is your take on this?

What level of retardation do you suffer from?


Is a single mom a red flag?

How about hookers and escorts?

Female nature parades *****-dom and victimhood.

Ozark daughter age 15 tells her father not to slut shame. She is then banged out and ghosted.

The level of retards is beyond disbelief. It makes stunting on cucks and doing the robbery like child's play.

 

[Skyline]

Depends on if the skimpiness is excessive.

Some men are prudes who want their girl to wear sweatpants to the beach in the summer, but some women are slvts that would go outside in lingerie and a trenchcoat during the winter.

Also depends on if the posting itself is excessive or not.

There's a difference between daily selfies where she pulls down her pants to show off her ass and thong in a mcdonalds bathroom while at work, versus posting in a bikini at a beach trip. Or wearing short shorts during a heat wave.

In the end I think some guys need to get with the times, it's not 1942 anymore, your woman being sexual and sexy is a good thing unless your crippling insecurity is a bigger deal than having an attractive girl you can have fun with on your arm, etc.

As long as she isn't allowing or inviting other men to get some while you two are committed, and she dresses sexy for your benefit rather than primarily for others

Also most of the women I know who wouldn't wear something sexy have crippling insecurity. It's not that they're super good girls or anything, they're basket cases when it comes to their body and appearance.

Ironically a lot of women who self righteously take pride in """not being that kind of girl""" are just virtue signaling (whether it comes to dressing slvtty, having sex early or easy, etc.)

example: girl 1 I knew would always call girl 2 a slvt looking for attention behind her back because girl 2 was obsessed with crop tops and wore them even in the winter. in the end girl 1 ended up cheating on her boyfriend and girl 2 was 100% loyal. Funny how that works out huh?

You're exactly right. The ones that exploit their body's are the ones everyone should be avoiding.

It's perfectly acceptable for a girl to wear short shorts and a tank top in the middle of summer. It's if she constantly flaunts it that it becomes an issue.

 

[sangheilios]

Depends on if the skimpiness is excessive.

Some men are prudes who want their girl to wear sweatpants to the beach in the summer, but some women are slvts that would go outside in lingerie and a trenchcoat during the winter.

Also depends on if the posting itself is excessive or not.

There's a difference between daily selfies where she pulls down her pants to show off her ass and thong in a mcdonalds bathroom while at work, versus posting in a bikini at a beach trip. Or wearing short shorts during a heat wave.

In the end I think some guys need to get with the times, it's not 1942 anymore, your woman being sexual and sexy is a good thing unless your crippling insecurity is a bigger deal than having an attractive girl you can have fun with on your arm, etc.

As long as she isn't allowing or inviting other men to get some while you two are committed, and she dresses sexy for your benefit rather than primarily for others

Also most of the women I know who wouldn't wear something sexy have crippling insecurity. It's not that they're super good girls or anything, they're basket cases when it comes to their body and appearance.

Ironically a lot of women who self righteously take pride in """not being that kind of girl""" are just virtue signaling (whether it comes to dressing slvtty, having sex early or easy, etc.)

example: girl 1 I knew would always call girl 2 a slvt looking for attention behind her back because girl 2 was obsessed with crop tops and wore them even in the winter. in the end girl 1 ended up cheating on her boyfriend and girl 2 was 100% loyal. Funny how that works out huh?

I'm referring to the one's who regularly post content like this and to the point where literally all of their pictures are the same trend of her being an attention *****. I know of a girl like this, literally every picture is of her showing of her butt and the few pictures she has with friends still involves showing off to some degree.

 

[sosousage]

you would have to assign red flag to 90% of young women then

 

[Roober]

Seeking validation through social media, peacocking, or other intentional need for attention is an attempt to fill a void in their life. If a person is sure of themself, they dont need approval of others.

And this applies to men and women.

 

[devilkingx2]

I'm referring to the one's who regularly post content like this and to the point where literally all of their pictures are the same trend of her being an attention *****. I know of a girl like this, literally every picture is of her showing of her butt and the few pictures she has with friends still involves showing off to some degree.

That sounds like an extreme case, I'd say to stay away from her since it seems like not your thing. Focus on the average case because that's what you need to learn to get over, extreme fringe cases can just be ignored and filtered out

 

[sangheilios]

That sounds like an extreme case, I'd say to stay away from her since it seems like not your thing. Focus on the average case because that's what you need to learn to get over, extreme fringe cases can just be ignored and filtered out

I know that is more extreme, but it is very common. Some degree of this is normal and I personally don't think it's that big of a deal, but when a normal day to day woman's social media is predominately made up of something like this I'd see that as a red flag.