attention wh0res

[Five To One]

Im looking to call a girl out on being an attention wh0re, I just dont know how to word it.

I dont think coming right out and using the word attention wh0re would do juctice, she just wouldnt understand.


She loves any kind of attention she can get from anyone and thats what I want to make clear. But I dont know how to word it so she understand how much I hate that about her and how unattractive she is because of it.

Anyone have something to say or am I not making any sense?


btw im not looking to change her or win her over, shes just an ex that I cant get myself away from because of school.

 

[Jitterbug]

Im looking to call a girl out on being an attention wh0re

You want to punish an attention wh0re by giving her drama and making her the center of attention? Good plan.

 

[Robert28]

best thing to do with these types of gals is just ignore 'em. drives them NUTS.

 

[DJDamage]

You want to punish an attention wh0re by giving her drama and making her the center of attention? Good plan.

Nailed it with logic.

Ignore her and be cool about it, she is already out of your life so no need to sweat it.

 

[KontrollerX]

What the guys have already told you is one of the most effective ways to hurt an attention wh0re.

A former guy who they still may see some value in or that their friends see value in who then ignores them and focuses on other women and friends and not what she's doing, all that ignoring on your part is like driving daggers through her heart even if you never visually see her appear harmed by your ignoring of her in favor of other people to focus your attention on.

The second way to hurt them deeply is to get with another girl in such a way that everyone knows you are with the new girl and spreads this gossip around which WILL get to an AW as they love gossip almost as much as attention and she will be hurt greatly by this and once again even if you never see her hurt reaction.

 

[Five To One]

You want to punish an attention wh0re by giving her drama and making her the center of attention? Good plan.

Well not exactly. It would be stupid to do it around people, give me a bit more credit than that. And its not so much drama that she loves, she just loves attention from guys, giving them her number, leading them on, ect.

So thanks for the reply but you come off as a bit arrogant when you mock it.



To Robert, I do plenty of ignoring but like i said, she goes to my school, and I still have her in my life some.


To kontrollerX, Iv got her friend hooked as a fvck buddy, so iv got that covered. Whats funny is the girl will deny it to my ex's face, even though everyone knows she comes running when I call her.



What I want to do is make this girl understand why I dont like her anymore, I dont need to hurt her or annoy her, just make her understand. I just want to show her how unattractive I found it when we were dating.

If no one has a good way to word it then thats fine, I was just curious if someone knows how to explain to a girl what an attention wh0re is.

 

[KontrollerX]

"What I want to do is make this girl understand why I dont like her anymore"

If she is a Cluster B attention wh0re like say a histrionic or a borderline read my words: YOU WILL NEVER GET THROUGH TO HER.

And let me explain that...

Even if you were to directly tell one of these people or have a mutual friend somehow tell one of these nutjobs why you don't like them anymore they will interpret this as a game being played on them and ignore it and keep looking for themselves for your real motive for saying such things.

The thing to understand about these types is they have such a lack of trust for humanity that they will never believe anything you say and when you think they believe what you have said that is just them giving you what you want to see not them really acknowledging what you said as a genuine truth that they believe.

Now then if you were just speaking of attention wh0re in the non sicko non nutjob sense then you can instruct a mutual friend to let her know why you don't like her anymore and she will understand that directly.

Though you should wisely instruct your mutual friend to bring up your thoughts on her casually in the middle of an ongoing conversation with her so it doesn't come off as though you cared enough to have him or her directly deliver a message to your ex AW.

You want your message to come off as moreso a random comment that your friend decided to bring up on his own as you don't want it to look like you've deliberately instructed your friend to give her a message from you.

"If no one has a good way to word it then thats fine, I was just curious if someone knows how to explain to a girl what an attention wh0re is."

A problem with histrionics is the majority of them have no insight which means even if many people were to tell them that they acted a certain way often which got them a certain response the histrionic literally wouldn't be able to see or recognize that behavior in herself.

She'd even think all those people were lying or messing with her as she so literally cannot search within herself and see how she acts to the public which once again gets her a certain kind of response.

A very rare few know that they are histrionics but the vast majority don't and have absolutely no insight.

Even on the forum I used to moderate all about the condition a histrionic signed up under the name noinsight.

 

[Five To One]

Thanks a lot, im going to do a bit of researce on the histrionic personality disorder. Its really interesting and I cant believe its a legit problem that has been identified.


thanks again for the reply KontrollerX, it seems like lately you have been able to answer all my questions.