I've been having a few problems with an attention wh0re. We got on like a house on fire and I pulled her while drunk once. I would burn her and she'd work for my attention and then she would burn me and I'd work for her attention. Only problem was that she had a boyfriend.
For a while it was fun but I got tired of her sh*t so told her I had feelings for her and gave her an ultimatum. Like the archetypal attention wh0re that she was she pretended that she had no interest in me and couldn't possibly understand why I'd think that (blah blah). Of course, everyone around us constantly commenting that we were flirting and would make a great couple hadn't filtered through into her brain.
To be honest, I hoped that she wasn't an attention wh0re and this was the final test - which she failed clearly. I know what she is now and I'm quite angry with her. I should tell you that I'm quite a confrontational guy that doesn't take sh*t and enjoys getting back at people.
We hang out in the same group and much as I'd like not to see her anymore at all, I'm not going to sacrifice my friends for this b*tch. I also figure that this is going to p*ss her off quite a bit.
Anyway, we had that fake conversation about being "civil" to one another from now on but she kept jabbing insults at me like "you must be delusional if you think I like you" and "you've been telling everyone around us that I like you and are poisoning them against me". As I said, I'm not one to back down. So I called her up and told her to ease up on the jibes. What's interesting is that she told me leave her alone yet picked up the phone and responded to all my angry text messages. She still argues with me in public too. You'd think if she didn't want to talk to me she'd just ignore the call or text wouldn't you?
So we meet up in our group today and I'm joking around with everybody including her as if I don't give a sh*t. At one point I was talking to another guy and I glanced over at her and noticed she was staring at me, at which point she quickly looked away. She also flirts with another guy and when they do this I kind of give her a "you filthy b*tch" look and she came up to me and said I made her uncomfortable doing that.
So as we're sitting having coffee in the group she starts making small insults like "God you can't be trusted" and "you can't stop gossiping about me can you?". I ignore this totally.
Later on, I send her an e-mail setting out that she is a manipulative attention seeker who used me as an emotional crutch and how I was moving on and asked her to do the same. I specifically asked her not to reply; just think about the contents and act on it.
A few hours later, after watching some TV, I return to my mobile to see she has called me four times (!) leaving a message complaining about my e-mail and asking me to contact her. She's also quite upset that I'm ignoring her. So I phone her up and told her I stand by everything I've said. She then starts crying and telling me to stop pestering her! She tells me to get off the phone. She threatens to "tell someone" that I'm harrassing her. She threatens to get her (Taekwando champion) flatmate to "sort me out" and her boyfriend to "set me straight". I said she was nuts and it wouldn't be necessary as long as she moved on. She slammed the phone down.
Fine, I said. Next thing I know, her boyfriend is calling me! He knows the full story and is really nervous (can you imagine how uncomfortable this conversation was?!). At first he begins to threaten me like her and says I'm harrassing her. I then put my side of the story (and put a few doubts in his head about her flirty ways) and to my surprise he starts coming more and more on my side and agrees to talk to the b*tch. He even invites me to go for a drink next time he's around. This seems pretty f*cked up to me and either he is just bullsh*tting or both of them are nuts.
To all those with this kind of experience. What is going on with this b*tch? Is she still trying to get at me? Why? Am I hurting her by not being phased around her? What is she going to do in the future? I'm guessing she will try and ruin my rep to get back at me. If I'm being honest I'm enjoying getting to her like this. Is this the wrong approach?
FYI I am trying to move on and realise the utter futility and stupidity of liking a girl that a) does not like me and b) is f*cked in the head. In fact, I have a date this Thursday with a better looking girl than this b*tch.
For a while it was fun but I got tired of her sh*t so told her I had feelings for her and gave her an ultimatum. Like the archetypal attention wh0re that she was she pretended that she had no interest in me and couldn't possibly understand why I'd think that (blah blah). Of course, everyone around us constantly commenting that we were flirting and would make a great couple hadn't filtered through into her brain.
To be honest, I hoped that she wasn't an attention wh0re and this was the final test - which she failed clearly. I know what she is now and I'm quite angry with her. I should tell you that I'm quite a confrontational guy that doesn't take sh*t and enjoys getting back at people.
We hang out in the same group and much as I'd like not to see her anymore at all, I'm not going to sacrifice my friends for this b*tch. I also figure that this is going to p*ss her off quite a bit.
Anyway, we had that fake conversation about being "civil" to one another from now on but she kept jabbing insults at me like "you must be delusional if you think I like you" and "you've been telling everyone around us that I like you and are poisoning them against me". As I said, I'm not one to back down. So I called her up and told her to ease up on the jibes. What's interesting is that she told me leave her alone yet picked up the phone and responded to all my angry text messages. She still argues with me in public too. You'd think if she didn't want to talk to me she'd just ignore the call or text wouldn't you?
So we meet up in our group today and I'm joking around with everybody including her as if I don't give a sh*t. At one point I was talking to another guy and I glanced over at her and noticed she was staring at me, at which point she quickly looked away. She also flirts with another guy and when they do this I kind of give her a "you filthy b*tch" look and she came up to me and said I made her uncomfortable doing that.
So as we're sitting having coffee in the group she starts making small insults like "God you can't be trusted" and "you can't stop gossiping about me can you?". I ignore this totally.
Later on, I send her an e-mail setting out that she is a manipulative attention seeker who used me as an emotional crutch and how I was moving on and asked her to do the same. I specifically asked her not to reply; just think about the contents and act on it.
A few hours later, after watching some TV, I return to my mobile to see she has called me four times (!) leaving a message complaining about my e-mail and asking me to contact her. She's also quite upset that I'm ignoring her. So I phone her up and told her I stand by everything I've said. She then starts crying and telling me to stop pestering her! She tells me to get off the phone. She threatens to "tell someone" that I'm harrassing her. She threatens to get her (Taekwando champion) flatmate to "sort me out" and her boyfriend to "set me straight". I said she was nuts and it wouldn't be necessary as long as she moved on. She slammed the phone down.
Fine, I said. Next thing I know, her boyfriend is calling me! He knows the full story and is really nervous (can you imagine how uncomfortable this conversation was?!). At first he begins to threaten me like her and says I'm harrassing her. I then put my side of the story (and put a few doubts in his head about her flirty ways) and to my surprise he starts coming more and more on my side and agrees to talk to the b*tch. He even invites me to go for a drink next time he's around. This seems pretty f*cked up to me and either he is just bullsh*tting or both of them are nuts.
To all those with this kind of experience. What is going on with this b*tch? Is she still trying to get at me? Why? Am I hurting her by not being phased around her? What is she going to do in the future? I'm guessing she will try and ruin my rep to get back at me. If I'm being honest I'm enjoying getting to her like this. Is this the wrong approach?
FYI I am trying to move on and realise the utter futility and stupidity of liking a girl that a) does not like me and b) is f*cked in the head. In fact, I have a date this Thursday with a better looking girl than this b*tch.
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