"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Attention Wh0re: how to teach her a lesson?

PapiChulo

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I know that most of you guys would say it is a waste of time, yet I caught her early on, so I would like turn the table around and play a cruel joke on her.

She's a textbook AW, pump and dump. She feels insecure I bet and is not all that smart. How do I go about hurting her ego?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Tiguere

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YOU LIKE HURTING PEOPLE?

i dont care what this women is. you shouldnt spend time and energy on negativity, instead use this time and energy to meet women who will earn your respect.
 

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don't you worry... life is going to kick her ass and teach her some lessons.
 

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You just vanish from her life without notice and ignore her. Instead, you invest your time on endeavours that are worth your time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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f283000

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Nothing pisses off a woman more than seeing you happy..without her and with other women!

It's the best form of revenge against a woman which is why NC works so well. If you try to get revenge by other means you are just doing what women do and falling right into her trap. Women are all about mind games.
 

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Yep, that's what I ve been doing so far - NC, deleted the phone number, etc. I have a feeling she is gonna hit me up in a week..... he he
 

JdelaSilviera

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How to be cruel? ignore her completly, you dont need to do a thing... or fvck her best friend ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jophil28

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Im sort of in the same boat but I really just want to estabish frame with her. Called her an AW and re-established frame but blew it tonight by inviting her to a party. She set me up for a monster flake that will hurt and be on my mind/ruin my night even though I see it coming a mile away.
I think you set yourself up. She is what she is.

Some of you guys work waaaay too hard, and most of you WASTE your time and energy on low IL women.

To PairPLus - you knew she was an AW , so why bother chasing her by inviting her out? Do you expect her to start acting differently and transform her compulsive neurotic need for attention into lovey dovey behavior.

If you MUST seek revenge on an AW, then just withhold what they want most -- ATTENTION. Simple isn't it?
 

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Ignoring an attention ***** doesn't work at all. They'll just get more attention from other guys or girls. You have to do something to humiliate her and teach her a lesson. I don't know what that is yet, but you must do something or she'll never learn.
 

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Tighten_Up said:
Ignoring an attention ***** doesn't work at all. They'll just get more attention from other guys or girls. You have to do something to humiliate her and teach her a lesson. I don't know what that is yet, but you must do something or she'll never learn.
AW don't learn....
They just are and always will be AW one way or another. You will always come out looking like a fool for wasting time on this crap.

As for the OP, playing these games should be beneath you.
 

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Surpise buttsex, hopefully with neocon taping of the buttsex and desouling. Tucker Max rhymes with goldman sachs. Ben bernake buttsexing.

Sorry, had a greatbooksformen moment.
 
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