"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Attention wh0re games?

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So there is one chick I'm teasing all the time and we have fun until she says to me in a playful way

Her :f#ck you
Me: thank you ( stupid response, I know)
Her: ( in a lower tone) I will do it later


She's an attention wh0re so I don't give her much attention, I'm just having fun myself but I've never heard in my life something similar from a girl so what does this mean?

Any similar experiences?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes, with a female co-worker, it doesn't mean anything really, she's just playing. I would have responded "maybe later, I'm busy now"
 

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Willard said:
Yes, with a female co-worker, it doesn't mean anything really, she's just playing. I would have responded "maybe later, I'm busy now"
Haha this is gold, allow me to grab this
 
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