"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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attention wh0re / 5lut ?

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nosmirk

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this girl constantly flirts with me, physically and online.

deliberate touching/hitting, calling me sexy/love/cutie. teases, and brings up sexual topics.

she has an on-off boyfriend, and apparently treats a few guys in this way as well.

obviously not LTR material to me, but im wondering how to approach this in order to benefit on a purely physical aspect? (more complicated way of saying 'sex' :D )
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Good thing you've noticed she's not LTR material, so don't put much focus on her, I'm sure you have other chicks you're talking to. Flirt with her when she flirts with you, but don't go out of your way to initiate conversations.

Casually ask her out, mention some club you want to go to, or any other place where you have a good excuse to touch her and get physical.

If she rejects you than obviously she's just a tease. If she keeps flirting with you, wait a few weeks/month to casually ask her out again. Remember don't put emphasis on her, sounds like she's just trying to validate herself with the attention she gets from guys like you.
 
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This is simple, ask her for a fvck, if you get it enjoy it then immediately next her, if you don't forget about her, try to get her out of your mind as quickly as possible. :cool:
 
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Its quite possible she's playing "rappo". Meaning she turns you on deliberatly but as soon as you make a move she'll shoot you down. 'Why' you ask. Because some of them wants to figure out how "pretty" they are and are just using you like a tool.
Its a power trip to them to see how many guys she can tool (because of her looks).
 
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