"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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attention wh0re / 5lut ?

nosmirk

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this girl constantly flirts with me, physically and online.

deliberate touching/hitting, calling me sexy/love/cutie. teases, and brings up sexual topics.

she has an on-off boyfriend, and apparently treats a few guys in this way as well.

obviously not LTR material to me, but im wondering how to approach this in order to benefit on a purely physical aspect? (more complicated way of saying 'sex' :D )
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cazador

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Good thing you've noticed she's not LTR material, so don't put much focus on her, I'm sure you have other chicks you're talking to. Flirt with her when she flirts with you, but don't go out of your way to initiate conversations.

Casually ask her out, mention some club you want to go to, or any other place where you have a good excuse to touch her and get physical.

If she rejects you than obviously she's just a tease. If she keeps flirting with you, wait a few weeks/month to casually ask her out again. Remember don't put emphasis on her, sounds like she's just trying to validate herself with the attention she gets from guys like you.
 

PigAdlemPimp

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This is simple, ask her for a fvck, if you get it enjoy it then immediately next her, if you don't forget about her, try to get her out of your mind as quickly as possible. :cool:
 

Freddy1

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Its quite possible she's playing "rappo". Meaning she turns you on deliberatly but as soon as you make a move she'll shoot you down. 'Why' you ask. Because some of them wants to figure out how "pretty" they are and are just using you like a tool.
Its a power trip to them to see how many guys she can tool (because of her looks).
 
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