"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If your gut instinct hints some type of troll, please ban them. Many posts are very obvious. I speaks for many in this community that we are not pushovers. We will not tolerate posters that have no intention of bettering our community. It should be very obvious to those doing harm, or else the moderators wouldn't be elected in the first place. You are given authoritative powers, please use them accordingly.

As always, you have our full support.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This thread was NEEDED. I'm getting sick of all these BS threads popping up as well...
 

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I feel that Skinnyguy is a troll... I mean he posts useless **** and defends his idiot point relentlessly.
Agreed. He's just wasting the valuable time of people who try to help him.

Clearly a troll.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've been a moderator, admin, and co admin on multiple gaming websites(and in game) in the passed, and it can get a bit tricky to ban types of trolling. That one asian guy asking to rate him was obviously a troll but skinnyguy is just uneducated on subjects. Its really our job to reducate him and guide him or anyone else in the right direction. AFC's are naturally stubborn.

If i was in a position of power i would actually be sending warning messages to some of the older members for flaming each other- as its against the rules. I see a lot more flaming to and from other members rather than actual trolls.

But in retrospect people get away with a lot of sh*t here based on my experience.
 

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I agree. Its not hard to see the trolls. Sh!t has being crazy. Its fine if some one wants to attempt to visibly disagree, and they can be shut down with logic. But things have been getting real stupid on here.
 

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(First of all, kudos for sounding more mature at age seventeen than many do at 30+)

Frayzer said:
I've been a moderator, admin, and co admin on multiple gaming websites(and in game) in the passed, and it can get a bit tricky to ban types of trolling. That one asian guy asking to rate him was obviously a troll but skinnyguy is just uneducated on subjects. Its really our job to reducate him and guide him or anyone else in the right direction. AFC's are naturally stubborn.

If i was in a position of power i would actually be sending warning messages to some of the older members for flaming each other- as its against the rules. I see a lot more flaming to and from other members rather than actual trolls.

But in retrospect people get away with a lot of sh*t here based on my experience.
Troll or not troll ... someone please tell him to stop posting useless threads that push away better threads.

"HEY! Do you think that wearing SHOES gives you more tail than NOT wearing shoes?"

Unfortunately there is no forum function for stopping a user from posting threads ... but how about locking meaningless threads? That should be a clear enough hint.
 

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Driggs

But the point is, what is the optimal way of pulling her back into my sphere where she can be ignored?
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Quote: noobolgy:

"I think this is a troll, but just incase this is some sad, poor, motherfvcker, I will treat it like its not a troll.

You seriously are fvcked, if you want to do some sh!t like this. Stop yourself, focus on yourself, and get some help if you need it."
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I feel that Skinnyguy is a troll... I mean he posts useless **** and defends his idiot point relentlessly.
Oh, I see.

Basically anyone who disagrees with you should be banned.

Very mature.
 

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We don't ban people for being weird, different, confused, new at this, inexperienced, eccentric, abrasive, young, old, doesn't agree with SS's general philosophies, uneducated, naïve, etc.

We carefully deliberate on each individual in question in order to accurately ascertain whether they are willfully trolling or just blundering out of naiveté or inexperience. We do this to avoid being heavy-handed and denying people chances to get up to speed here.

Many (though not all) men who join here have some significant deficits in socializing skills and are here to learn and get on a more productive track. At first they appear a little weird but many of them make big improvements.

I can think of several members who might have appeared quite ban-worthy in their novice days here at SS; perhaps even one or two who are participating in this very thread.

We all have a very effective means of improving our experience here at SS... It's called ignoring threads that disinterest or annoy us. Simple and effective.
 
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