Attention span of girls is getting smaller and smaller nowadays

[Bethatsocialguy]

I´ll only discuss this one reason here but because people´s attention span is being reduced all over the world, you have a shorter amount of time to make an impression. It so happens that being rich, tall and muscular creates an image of you in such a short amount of time which allows the girl to make a quick judgement. Why listen to 25 other average guys who dont stand out but this one guy has all 3? That is why girls more often than not choose the typical alpha man. There is a chance for more average guys but you have to stand out in some way. Capture the attention of a girl in a positive way that no other people can and you will see results. This could be dancing, singing,be social, having a good time etc

 

[SW15]

Absolutely agree. In the second half of the 2010s, I remember making the observation that I could have had the exact same date in 2007 and 2017. In 2007, a date of that quality would have resulted in a second date. In 2017, the exact same level of quality date would have resulting in a ghosting/flaking. This is because women have had so many more options at any given time during the last 15 years, especially if the date is arranged from a dating app. Women expect "all the butterflies" in the first 10-15 minutes of the first date if arranged online.

Shorter attention spans will also affect your cold approaches too, but less drastically. It's still better to meet women via cold approach than swipe apps or social media app/website. In your cold approaches, you are competing for attention with her smartphone. You have to bring more value quickly than she could get from scrolling her smartphone.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Absolutely agree. In the second half of the 2010s, I remember making the observation that I could have had the exact same date in 2007 and 2017. In 2007, a date of that quality would have resulted in a second date. In 2017, the exact same level of quality date would have resulting in a ghosting/flaking. This is because women have had so many more options at any given time during the last 15 years, especially if the date is arranged from a dating app. Women expect "all the butterflies" in the first 10-15 minutes of the first date if arranged online.

Shorter attention spans will also affect your cold approaches too, but less drastically. It's still better to meet women via cold approach than swipe apps or social media app/website. In your cold approaches, you are competing for attention with her smartphone. You have to bring more value quickly than she could get from scrolling her smartphone.

Noticed the same. I'm aware of the SJW Era and media scandal. Cold approach is better as you said. Furthermore, blow me or blow me out seems to be a superb play. More flash game. Catch &&&& release.