“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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horaholic

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I know this is an open forum and all, but in the last week or so, there has been an influx of noobs and women coming here and posting threads that go against everything this site stands for. I think threads like the ones below should be locked. I didnt know if they qualified as a "bad post," per se, as the rules of the report button say, so Im posting it here. Everyone is entitled to there opinion and all, but this crap is detrimental to the whole purpose of this site, and has no place here IMO. These limiting beliefs, and flat out BS is starting to spread around here with the newer posters like a cancer, and I propose action be taken to get us back on the right path.

Examples:

The secret of a player...
This game is all about looks. Don't let anyone else tell you otherwise...
Bootcamps aren't the answer

What does everyone else think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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penkitten

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every member is new once right?
perhaps we should refer new members to the bible , hall of fame threads or teach them how to use the search button feature.

how would you have felt if you weren't given a chance to learn and research what you needed to here?

they need information to help them, guide them into being men and not afc's. there is a new generation of people worse off than afc's out there right now calling themselves "the true forced loneliness" . that's gotta be like way befond wbafc.

i think members should either choose to give them the direction they need by referring them to the stuff they don't know where to find or to just give them good advice. if you don't want to do either, just ignore them and steer clear of them.

by the looks of your joined date, you are like a year old here.

if they are blatant trolls, by all means report them to the mods.
if they flamebait, report them.
if they try to push another website's agenda to draw members there, report them.

and for the record, not all the women on the site are horrible people.
 

horaholic

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You're missing my point. Im only talking about the ones trying to give horrible advice, that goes against everything this site is about. Read the threads Im referring to.

Im not talking about normal AFC noob stuff. And I dont think all the women on here are horrible. I have nothing against most of you, actually. There are one or two brand new ones that are spouting Cosmo logic around here to newbies, who think they are guys. One theory is that they are Iqqi's minions from loveshack, but I dont really know.

Im talking about these recent threads popping about about how bootcamps are stupid, and cold approaching is pointless, and looks are everything, and BS like that. These threads are extremely out of line with the point of this place.

I've been around here for about three years BTW. I just changed my name cuz I liked the sound of horaholic, and I have a decent amount of respect here. This recent spurt of counter-productive threads is pissing me off.

EDIT: wachovia is banned . Thats a good start. Thanx.
 
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KontrollerX

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This site is swirling the drain.

Its absolutely pointless to ask whoever is in charge here to do anything worthwhile.

Iqqi should have been banned years ago.

As should Tacky Taco.

Instead good contributors like T!ttyman and ketostix are given the axe.

Its ridiculous.
 

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I agree with horaholic and kontroller. all newbs should read the best of threads/dJ bible/mr fingerz posts upon making an account..maybe even a necessity to read them before entering into the forum.

This site has got some great OLD material. the moderators should start fixing this place up before the influx of the new people start influencing the newbs who visit this place a lot.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KontrollerX

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Irs88 said:
I agree with horaholic and kontroller. all newbs should read the best of threads/dJ bible/Pook posts upon making an account..maybe even a necessity to read them before entering into the forum.

This site has got some great OLD material. the moderators should start fixing this place up before the influx of the new people start influencing the newbs who visit this place a lot.
Fixed, and agreed. :)
 

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ha! I forgot to mention pook. he is a must!!
 
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