"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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horaholic

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I know this is an open forum and all, but in the last week or so, there has been an influx of noobs and women coming here and posting threads that go against everything this site stands for. I think threads like the ones below should be locked. I didnt know if they qualified as a "bad post," per se, as the rules of the report button say, so Im posting it here. Everyone is entitled to there opinion and all, but this crap is detrimental to the whole purpose of this site, and has no place here IMO. These limiting beliefs, and flat out BS is starting to spread around here with the newer posters like a cancer, and I propose action be taken to get us back on the right path.

Examples:

The secret of a player...
This game is all about looks. Don't let anyone else tell you otherwise...
Bootcamps aren't the answer

What does everyone else think?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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every member is new once right?
perhaps we should refer new members to the bible , hall of fame threads or teach them how to use the search button feature.

how would you have felt if you weren't given a chance to learn and research what you needed to here?

they need information to help them, guide them into being men and not afc's. there is a new generation of people worse off than afc's out there right now calling themselves "the true forced loneliness" . that's gotta be like way befond wbafc.

i think members should either choose to give them the direction they need by referring them to the stuff they don't know where to find or to just give them good advice. if you don't want to do either, just ignore them and steer clear of them.

by the looks of your joined date, you are like a year old here.

if they are blatant trolls, by all means report them to the mods.
if they flamebait, report them.
if they try to push another website's agenda to draw members there, report them.

and for the record, not all the women on the site are horrible people.
 

horaholic

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You're missing my point. Im only talking about the ones trying to give horrible advice, that goes against everything this site is about. Read the threads Im referring to.

Im not talking about normal AFC noob stuff. And I dont think all the women on here are horrible. I have nothing against most of you, actually. There are one or two brand new ones that are spouting Cosmo logic around here to newbies, who think they are guys. One theory is that they are Iqqi's minions from loveshack, but I dont really know.

Im talking about these recent threads popping about about how bootcamps are stupid, and cold approaching is pointless, and looks are everything, and BS like that. These threads are extremely out of line with the point of this place.

I've been around here for about three years BTW. I just changed my name cuz I liked the sound of horaholic, and I have a decent amount of respect here. This recent spurt of counter-productive threads is pissing me off.

EDIT: wachovia is banned . Thats a good start. Thanx.
 
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This site is swirling the drain.

Its absolutely pointless to ask whoever is in charge here to do anything worthwhile.

Iqqi should have been banned years ago.

As should Tacky Taco.

Instead good contributors like T!ttyman and ketostix are given the axe.

Its ridiculous.
 

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I agree with horaholic and kontroller. all newbs should read the best of threads/dJ bible/mr fingerz posts upon making an account..maybe even a necessity to read them before entering into the forum.

This site has got some great OLD material. the moderators should start fixing this place up before the influx of the new people start influencing the newbs who visit this place a lot.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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KontrollerX

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Irs88 said:
I agree with horaholic and kontroller. all newbs should read the best of threads/dJ bible/Pook posts upon making an account..maybe even a necessity to read them before entering into the forum.

This site has got some great OLD material. the moderators should start fixing this place up before the influx of the new people start influencing the newbs who visit this place a lot.
Fixed, and agreed. :)
 

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ha! I forgot to mention pook. he is a must!!
 
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