"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ATTENTION!! improving myself for 2011, with pics yeahh!!

How sexy am i O.o lol cause im just that superficial haha

  • ahhh my eyes are burning!!!

    Votes: 3 23.1%
  • not bad

    Votes: 4 30.8%
  • cool

    Votes: 3 23.1%
  • wow hot!

    Votes: 1 7.7%
  • AMAZING

    Votes: 2 15.4%

  • Total voters
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fox144112

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aye guys, im so pumped for 2011!!
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im 17, 5'11" 150lb trying to bulk up
i go to an all guys school...:mad: but we have a sister school right next to us :woo:

just started working out benching mostly, little running, trying to figure out how to do a squat :confused:

im a recovering AFC, and discovered the pua community about 2-3 months ago and love it, i approach a few times a week, mostly day game and just trying to improve my social life (im okay but i want to get more social) gonna take a bootcamp in austin in february, hope it helps

http://d.imagehost.org/view/0150/63481_1598011523314_1626787743_1383367_8375482_n
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What do you guys think?
What do I need to do to add to my look and improve myself?
oh and another question, alot of girls in my school think im like really old like prob in college so i think alot of them dont respond that well because of that, any ideas? (yeah ik excuses..excuses)

:cool:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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runner83

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Not bad...

Like the other dudes said, see what you can do with your eyebrows.

I give mine a trim with my razor every so often to keep them under control.

Also keep with your plan to bulk up since that will help your confidence greatly and enhance your masculine presence.

Don't only bench - also try to do other major compound exercises e.g. dead lifts and squats and make them the focus of your program. Running is also good, since what use is muscle without fitness?

I did a post a while back which might be of interest in the self improvement area:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=180485

Good luck!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Masculinity

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You're one of those guys that if you get your homework done you can sweep the floor with other guys trying to compete.

The pic in the helicopter is cool. You're not bad looking. Decide what you do wanna do with your eyebrows. If you start trimming them though, they will get bigger and become more of a hassle to maintain, just like any part of the body with hair.

PS: Using "wow hot" as a rating in the poll will not get you any responses as it sounds homo-like. I'd change it to "above cool" or "bad boy"
 

Twitch

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You have potential, unlike so many others that post their disastrous look up. I think you would look good with some facial hair.
Start weight training on a serious level, a basic routine that focuses on weight progression and includes squatting(to parallel at least) and deadlifting. You look like a ectomorph so a good starting protein recommendation is 2 grams per pound of body weight.
Also, impact cardio like running doesn't work well with weight training.
 

loveshogun

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Eyebrows? Really, guys?

You look fine, dude. You're on the more symmetrical/attractive side, which is all the thought most women put into it.

If you want to improve anything, learn to communicate clearly and concisely, no matter what medium you're using. You wouldn't think so, but a lot of people subconsciously get an impression of you based on how well you speak and write. This is why interviews (and first conversations) can make or break you.

On the topic of getting healthy and fit - doing this is great, and it will help you keep a woman, cause she has to be with you for a while to start appreciating your level of fitness. Fitness level, however, doesn't help you get one off the bat - so don't make the number of women you get be your deciding factor to stay fit... you'd get discouraged REAL quick.

Talk to as many women as you can. Older, younger, doesn't matter. Just talk to them. Get to know the rhythm of their thoughts.

And remember that you're 17. I'm only 25, but when I was 17, oh man. Don't even worry about it. Worrying about it will kill your chances for anything.

Learn success in the early stages of your life.

Good luck with all the changes you want to make. Make sure that they're changes you would make, even if they didn't involve women (eyebrows?).
 

fox144112

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thanks guys i appreciate it, @Pierce yah dude, im gonna lol, @Tiguere yah man i want a faux hawk. @runner83 i read ur article, solid stuff Procrastination = Mental Masturbation. lol agreed. @Robyn923b yeah ik. but cant change the poll so i guess everybody's gotta settle for wow hot lol @twitch thanks! @loveshogun lol thanks man @european-DJ i agree!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ice882

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European-DJ said:
Are you seriously TRIMMING your eyebrews Runner83?
European-DJ....from Europe. LOL.... "IN MAI KONTRY WE NEIGHBOR TRIM DE HAIRZ"
 

runner83

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European-DJ said:
Are you seriously TRIMMING your eyebrews Runner83?
Well, what I meant from that was that I give them a minor trim.

For me, the hairs grow up a bit too high in the middle, so I trim them back with my razor when I shave.

Also to remove the "monobrow" effect since I get a bit of growth in between.

So, only a couple of minutes every couple of weeks is normally what I do, just to keep them in order.
 

European-DJ

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runner83 said:
Well, what I meant from that was that I give them a minor trim.

For me, the hairs grow up a bit too high in the middle, so I trim them back with my razor when I shave.

Also to remove the "monobrow" effect since I get a bit of growth in between.

So, only a couple of minutes every couple of weeks is normally what I do, just to keep them in order.
Yeah, sorry for the misunderstandig.

But BE CAREFULL, trimming them will make them grow even bigger!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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