"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Attention Hor Myth

theunflushables

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kody_starr said:
I've said it before, and I'll say it again, if this is happening to you, it's because you (the male) are lacking in social skills, value, looks, confidence, something.

Also, don't have an attitude of entitlement: women aren't obligated to give you sex.

Most "pickup guys" I've met are so severely lacking or deficient in some very obvious area, it's really pointless to criticize any supposed deficiencies in women.

I met one pickup guy who constantly criticizes women for being b1tches. This dude is so goofy looking (ridiculous lack of fashion sense, goofy nerdy body language) himself I'm surprised he's gotten laid even once. But he would talk about b1tches teasing him, not putting out. He should've looked in the mirror.

As they say, when you point to something that's wrong in someone else, there's always three fingers pointing right back at ya!
No, Kody the AW exists. My room mate is one. She even admits that she is one and I've seen her at work.

We were at the bar the other night and she milked some 53yo for drinks all night long and then threw out his number as soon as we got home. I can't complain because the guy who was buying her drinks the night before that bought for me as well. Now, I just need to figure out how to be her AttentionPimp so I can benefit more often from her AW ways. lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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