Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Attention Bay Area Crew!

Kev07

Master Don Juan
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I am setting up a tentative date for a meet.

We will be approaching, discussing whatever, chilling, having fun, all the good times.

Reply here, or better yet email/PM me if you're interested.

Date has not been set yet, but should happen sometime soon.

Cheers,
Kev:rockon:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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aussiegoat55

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Now down here in LA we have a region called South Bay, but perhaps you're from San Francisco, Oakland, San Jose area? So which one?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jason88

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I live in the bay too. Honestly, I have a GF, but I'm just looking for a group of guys to go to bars/clubs with. I will wing and have no targets... so its good for everyone else.

Pm me anytime or just write back here!
 
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