"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Attention All Guys -- Get This Book!!

Hedonos

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The author of this book did not pay me to write this and I am not a sleazy publicist. There was a book written in 2002 called "The Guide to Picking Up Girls" written by a guy named Gabe Fischbarg. Don't let his name fool you. Based on what he wrote in his book he is a stud, a real Don Juan. Anyways, he is lawyer in New York City, so he know something about being in a big city with lots of good looking women around. The point is Get his book! It is published by the Penguin Group. Just google it or look for it on Amazon.com.

Just a little not about the book: It is NOT intended to be a dating guide. You can find all that here. What it teaches is how to PICK UP on a girl. For example, her "switch" has to be on for her to talk to you. I won't go into detail but if you want to know more, JUST GET THE DAMN BOOK!!

I hope this helps all you aspiring DJs. Good luck and God bless.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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her switch needs to be on? like she has to want to be aproached? guys do you agree with that?
 
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I keep asking myself this, Why the hell would i pay for something when I have all the information that I need right here?

It seems like a waste of money.

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