"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Atom Smasher sent me a video of his island vacation!

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Atom Smasher sent me a video postcard of his island vacation! Apparently his other alias is "Hedo Rick"...wait for his dance moves. (No wonder he was made a moderator of SS!) Rippin' and a tearin'! Hahahahaha :up:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YVtEX1J7tXQ
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ScottMustaine said:
Is that really him ? :D

Nah, Just felt like breakin balls. lol.

The guy in the video reminds me of SS posters in the future. hahaha
 

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so THAT'S why he says he never gets with the chicks he does private performances for

Naughty Ninja said:
No wonder he was made a moderator of SS!
LOL

jk Atom, if i were a girl i'd be taking off my panties after watching that video
 

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I must admit I laughed out loud at that one. Good job, NN!

It goes to show how you guys must picture me. I actually look 20 years younger than that guy and am much more triangular in build. Thank God I drank from the fountain of youth. I wish I could reveal myself to you all... You would be shocked and VERY encouraged about the future.

Thanks for the chuckle.

God, I hope Naughty Ninja finally goes out on an actual POF date one of these Saturday nights. He obviously has way too much time on his hands. ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Atom Smasher said:
I must admit I laughed out loud at that one. Good job, NN!

It goes to show how you guys must picture me. I actually look 20 years younger than that guy and am much more triangular in build. Thank God I drank from the fountain of youth. I wish I could reveal myself to you all... You would be shocked and VERY encouraged about the future.

Thanks for the chuckle!

Dude I had to break balls. I saw that video and actually it reminded me of how some of these dudes will wind up. I said F it. That's Atom Smasher. lmao. (As per comments on the video I think the dude wound up infamous all over TMZ etc. lol.)

Same here. NO ONE EVER believes I'm going to be 44. NO ONE. It's not just "pleasantries". Looking young is great. I don't let it get to my head though as next year I could completely fall apart as far as age looks. Also you get the whispers of "why isn't he married" etc. And It's too much of an over the head conversation for most people.

POF date? lol Dude I wouldn't waste my time with chicks on POF. I don't put even the "hawtest" chicks on a pedestal. I meet enough in real life. POF was basically a trollololol fest for me. Though it can and does work for dude who just want to practice with chicks off it.
 

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Yeah, every time I go golfing my friends always have to say "Guess how old he is" after introductions to new players just to see their look of disbelief.

It's a little weird but I'm not complaining.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Yeah, every time I go golfing my friends always have to say "Guess how old he is" after introductions to new players just to see their look of disbelief.

It's a little weird but I'm not complaining.

SAME sh1t. I dress up to date. Not over the top though and look waaay younger than I am. Kindof a curse though as you can almost sense people off first impressions think negatively about it as they're married or due to you as a younger looking guy "aren't where you should be" in life.

Funny as I just got home from a party and some dudes wife started talking to me...as she did she leaned so her breast touched my arm. I didn't say anything but it wasn't an "accident".

To be honest disrespectful sh1t like that from a woman who's married kindof puts me off to how people are.
 
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