"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Atheist Dating a Christian

Mental

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Alkali said:
The other day I realized I was a god.

Quite simple, really. I was praying...and than I had a sudden realization

I was praying to myself!

::Mental quickly walks away from Alkali just in case a "random" thunderbolt should suddenly strike:: :crackup:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bro,

There are three things you dont want to talk about with a girl you wanna bang.

1. Religion
2. politics.
3. I forget

If she brings it up, say your beliefs are very personal and you prefer not to talk about it. And why talk about it anyway. The only time I discuss religion is when a girl tries to use it as an excuse to not have sex. I deal with this subject in my book if you want further info.
 

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Dude only a FOOL who is an ATHIEST would date a CHRISTIAN and only a FOOL who is a CHRISTIAN would date an ATHIEST, some dudes and babes as well are so insecure about themselves that they will take anything that comes there way, don't be a WUSS, go out and sarge until you allure the hot babe who is compatable to you. :crazy:
 

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you can sex any willing hor you find (I'm not morally condoning it, but just saying it's possible to do)

But if you're going to look for a real relationship, I think you need to find some common values.
 

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I've learned if a girl is really into you she's not going to do anything to jeopardize the relationship. She just won't talk about it. Why would you want to ruin a good thing?

I was a christian a point in my life dating an agnostic. She never brought up her beliefs. And when I did she would argue that it would cause problems between us. And it did. Haahahaha.

So I'd suggest not bringing up your beliefs either...if you want things to continue, that is.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So funny... most "Christians" aren't real Christians... they have sex (before marriage), do drugs (coffee/alcohol) and then go to Sunday mass... thinking that they'll go to heaven... such hypocrites.

If she isn't open minded, then ditch her... she's just another ignorant broad. If she really liked you and wanted a serious LTR... she wouldn't bring the religion topic and would accept your belief, since its part of who YOU are.

Yes atheists are dumb... too bad most of them are scientists, who rely on PROOF and FACTS. I bet Christianity would have died out, if the bible wasn't written. Just like every other RELIGION and CULT. I'm so amazed that people can't seem to distinguish that religion is MAN-MADE and that it'll eventually die out... ex. Roman/Greek religion... now it's PAGAN, but people used to believe in those Gods... 200 years from now... Christianity will be another PAGAN religion.
 

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hey i have a question.
is an atheist someone who STRONGLY believes that there is no religion and thinks that other people are wrong? or simply someone that doesn't believe in some sort of god.

i don't believe in god because i want to know that i'm in control of my life, and that i'm strong enough to survive in this world by myself. so am i an atheist for thinking that way or not?
 
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Azanon, it has nothing to do with man-made religion - thus the hypocrisy!! It is universal - peoples without religion still belived in a "creator"!!

Crazy Asian -- don't confuse free-will with man-made religion - God has no religion!
 
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