"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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At which point would you consider yourself popular?

Highschoolkidzz

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Hey Guyz!

Im new to this great forum. I really like what you guys discuss here!
Now I wanted to introduce myself with a simple question:

When would you consider someone to be popular and not?
Does he has alot of friends?
Does he know lot of peoples?
Does he hookup with many girls?
Does he have to have a reputation?

Would love to here your insights/experiences about this :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Highschoolkidzz

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Ruler said:
My criteria would be:
People text him first
People talk about what he does / how cool he is when not around (or how funny)
Girls initiate things with him
He doesn't have to say a word to command respect in the classroom
He says what he wants and people agree

Really being popular is just a mindset. As long as you do the last two things I listed, you will become popular. Do your own thing and don't give a fvck about other people. That's how you become a leader and people will notice.
Yeah bro seems pretty legit! I totally agree with you. You become "popular" by actually working on yourself and becoming the most awesome version of yourself. Do that coupled with being social and there you have it.
 
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