At what point do you give up?

[killerasp]

At what point do you give up?

Im trying to get this girls number in my class. But i didnt get the opportunity to get her number in class but i do i have her AIM. Imed her twice. once while she was away and once when wasnt. at this point, im not going to try again b/c it feels like it aing going no where.

 

[The Bishop]

Originally posted by killerasp
At what point do you give up?

Im trying to get this girls number in my class. But i didnt get the opportunity to get her number in class but i do i have her AIM. Imed her twice. once while she was away and once when wasnt. at this point, im not going to try again b/c it feels like it aing going no where.

Yep. NEXT her.

I usually give a girl 2 chances, if she wont open up to me, i move on.

 

[bman]

never give up, you dont look like you even tried yet. dont use aim to get it though.

 

[Starman]

you give up..when you have to question it..

 

[MsThang]

Originally posted by bman
never give up, you dont look like you even tried yet. dont use aim to get it though.

This from the overly persistent guy who doesn't seem to pick-up when girls aren't interested.

If she liked you she would be more than happy to give you her number. Next her.

 

[bman]

Originally posted by MsThang
This from the overly persistent guy who doesn't seem to pick-up when girls aren't interested.

If she liked you she would be more than happy to give you her number. Next her.

you make assumptions too quick before you give your input. he didnt even say how he asked for it, he could have hinted. when i left the girl who "wasnt interested"s house i only hugged her and she followed me outside and gave ME a kiss. is that not interested? she also called me after that a few days later and asked me out. is that not interested? you obviously give your input to people before you know anything about the situation.

 

[MsThang]

And you obviously ask objective opinions on subjective situations.

If you want advice about girls, come here. If you want advice about A girl, ask people who actually know her/you/the situation. Otherwise these are all assumptions.

 

[bman]

assumption is the mother of all ****ups.

and you my friend, ****ed up.

 

[MsThang]

And you, my friend, **** the *** with a ***. So there

 

[Helter Skelter]

And your momma wears combat boots too!

 

[squirrels]

You move on when it gets to the point where you have to compromise your self-respect to continue. And when continual effort would take your time and attention away from the things you really WANT to do.

Low interest is usually an indicator that you're wasting too much time and not giving yourself enough respect. IL CAN be raised, but often the woman just is NOT worth the amount of effort needed to get her.

 

[sAxyguy83]

When you begin to question whether it's worth the effort you're putting in, NEXT.

 

[killerasp]

i figure, if the girl is interested, she would be willing to to communicate with you.

she did IM me back. she said she was sorry but must have missed my last IM then she goes off and assumes right off the bat that my previous IM was to ask her a question about work.

i gotta work with her on sunday on a group project. ill work the C&F and see what happens. but id got better things to do other than AIM a person to force a convo out of her.

 

[bman]

if you have to force a convo out of her it isnt worth it. but never ask a girl for her number. tell her to give you her number.